Men's way of thinking is rational, so we usually feel that in a relationship, clingy and missing is often a sign of a woman, and has nothing to do with men.
In fact, this is a stereotype, and when we think that the general characteristics of a group of people are what they are, we will preconceived and generalize, thinking that individual groups are also like this.
In fact, love is a very magical thing, no matter how rational a person is, no matter how calm and serious a person is.
As soon as they meet someone they really like, all the frameworks are overturned.
Rational people become irrational, calm and heavy people also become uncaring, we will see the other side of these people, can't help but start to sigh, the charm of love, is so obvious.
Sometimes we wonder why men who are supposed to be bad at words suddenly have so many words.
What you don't know is that liking "no words to talk to" is actually a signal that men are "crazy thinking about you" -
The thoughts overwhelmed the sea, and they could no longer hold back
When we don't like a person, it is a state where one person is full, the whole family is not hungry, there is no one who cares at all, how can we miss it or not.
When we begin to like a person, then we will have our own "doom", before it was simply my own way, now it is sincere fear.
When you can't see your beloved, you will be very proud in your heart, and you may also want to suppress these emotions.
But after the repression, I found that these emotions had accumulated too much, to the point of overflowing.
Therefore, in the case of intolerable thoughts, we will have no words to talk to.
In "Intimate Relationships", the author said: "Your intimate relationship partners are used to help you know yourself better, heal your wounds, and finally find your true self." ”
When the intimacy reaches a certain degree of tacit understanding, we feel like we have met ourselves in another parallel world, and no matter what we do, we can feel the comfort of being understood.
As a result, our significant other is more like a bridge to our souls.
All love goes through such a process of longing, and this happens to be the best testimony of sweetness.
All the words that are not there are words, and there are thoughts that cannot be hidden
Yang Yu in the TV series "Dearest You" likes Lin Xiaochun, he is also a popular figure in school, and there are not a few people chasing him.
The simple temperament of Lin Xiaochun attracted Yang Yu, but because it was the first time to get along with such a girl, it made this big grinning boy worry about how to chase girls for the first time.
He began to look awkwardly for topics, afraid that any sentence that was too abrupt would scare the other party away.
Every day is "have you eaten, slept, what are you doing, what are you eating" and other seemingly meaningless words, in fact, it is these words that have no words to find, reflecting the weight of Lin Xiaochun in Yang Yu's heart.
Because what you don't like is generous, and what you like will be clumsy and careful.
There is a sentence in Long Yingtai's "Dear Andrei" that says:
"The partner you need is preferably someone who can stand side by side with you at the bow of the boat, sing the scenery on both sides of the strait, and at the same time be able to hold your hand tightly in the rough seas." 」
And what we are looking for is exactly such a person, all the careful giggles, all of which hide a strong liking for us.
Because I love you, I miss you
Do you know what is most important in a relationship?
Not a person's appearance, because the appearance value is too constrained by time, may still feel good-looking in a second, with time, it feels ordinary;
Nor is it what we often call bread, because money has always been someone else's, and there are very few possibilities that really belong to us.
In a relationship, the most important thing is to share.
Today encountered a funny thing, immediately tell each other;
When eating spicy hot today, the boss added an omelette to himself, such a good luck, but also can't wait to share with each other;
When I walked home today, I saw that the cloud in the sky was actually a puppy, I thought it was very interesting, and immediately took a photo to show the other party.
These things seem like trivial things, bits and pieces, and when you say this, aren't you afraid that the other party will feel annoyed?
In fact, when a man loves a woman, he doesn't have these concerns, because deep down in his heart, he feels that the other person is the one who deserves to share the trivial things himself.
Bacon once said: "Love not only occupies the open and open mind, but also sometimes breaks into the well-fortified mind." ”
Love will invisibly change a person, when a man begins to have a soft place in his heart, he will open his heart and let his thoughts rush.