People say that marriage is the graveyard of love, and when two people fall in love together, everything is good, but after a long time of marriage, it changes its taste. And it is also unfair between men and women, especially after having children, for men, they can still be very dashing and do not have to worry about trivial things in life.
But for women, having a child is a concern, men have something to say to go, but women can't do it, women can't throw the child away, every day is coaxing, coaxing and coaxing, the time and energy paid are incomparable to men.
Recently, a woman in Fujian uploaded a video on her social platform, in which her newborn daughter was crying, while her husband was lying on the side playing with her mobile phone, deaf to the child's cries, motionless.
It is reported that before the woman gave birth to a child, her husband was very good to the woman, it can be said that she spoiled the woman into a princess, everything depends on her, and she is also taken care of everywhere in life.
And the husband's family is also very good to the woman, and the family also very much hopes that the woman can have more children, and promises to help with the children, so that the woman does not have to worry.
But the good times did not last long, just when the woman thought she had found her true destiny, and thought that her husband's family really regarded herself as a family, the change happened.
When the woman gave birth, because of the painless injection at that time, the lower body had no strength in the middle of the month, could not get out of bed and could not walk, and even in bed she needed to crawl to move.
It was also at this time that the woman found that her husband and family did not know when to start a significant change in their attitude towards themselves, and what they said before was good for themselves to help themselves with their children, but now they have not done anything.
In the video, we can see that the child is crying in bed, but the husband is just lying on the side playing with the mobile phone, without any intention of getting up, even if the woman's lower body has no strength, the husband has not shown a trace of pain, and the daughter wow wow crying is also left alone.
And the woman vomited badly, the child woke up and began to urge the husband to change diapers, but the husband just did not move, but also found an excuse that the child was hungry, at this time the woman just finished feeding her daughter, how can she be hungry.
The husband also had to find an excuse not to move, and finally the woman got angry, and after two quarrels, the man changed his daughter into diapers.
After the woman posted the matter on the Internet, many netizens speculated whether it was because it was a girl who was born, so the family would have this attitude.
However, in the woman's heart, she is very reluctant to admit this situation, thinking that her husband was so good to herself before, and now it is simply a difference between heaven and earth.
Women are very puzzled, why are there still people who are so harsh on women because they give birth to girls, is it not decided by men to give birth to boys and girls, and why after the birth of a child, they blame all this on women's heads.
In view of the husband's attitude, the woman has already thought clearly and said that in the future, don't think about giving birth to a second child, when there is no one to take care of the first child, let alone the second child.
Lao Yu wanted to say
Now that it is in a new era, many people are no longer the idea of preferring sons to daughters, but this is only limited to some people, and at present, there are still many families who are very obsessed with boys, because raising sons can prevent old age.
However, for the current era, adopting sons and daughters are the same, and it used to be felt that raising sons to prevent old age is because sons can accompany the elderly, and daughters are going to marry, and it is impossible to accompany the elderly at all times.
But now even if you raise a son to grow up, you may not be able to accompany the elderly, and now young people like to go outside to develop, but they can't take the old people with them, so in the future, both boys and girls will not live with the elderly.