In the TV series "Heart Residence", Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Qingyu's "sister-in-law war" has attracted much attention.
First, Feng Xiaoqin's actor Haiqing and Gu Qingyu's actor Tong Yao are quite famous, and the opponents of the two play "bring their own traffic";
Second, the contradiction between the "foreign daughter-in-law" and the "local aunt" is portrayed in the play as both sharp and realistic, and it is easy to let the audience with similar experiences substitute for it, and unconsciously evolve the quarrel in the play into a hot discussion on the Internet.
But in fact, the life problems exposed by "Heart Residence" are not only so simple as "sister-in-law contradictions".
Although some of the characters in the play are not so eye-catching, their respective distresses and different coping methods are also very thoughtful.
Among them, Gu Xin, played by Lu Siyu, is a character who is easy to be ignored, but the problems on his body cannot be ignored at all.
Gu Xin is the son of the eldest brother of the Gu family, who looks relatively sunny, has a stable public job, and has good conditions in all aspects.
However, under this seemingly excellent surface, it is actually the dark side that Gu Xin is trying to hide:
In order to pursue career success, Gu Xin abandoned his girlfriend and the daughter of a high-ranking official to marry, knowing that he wanted to be a "door-to-door son-in-law" and did not hesitate.
Although there is nothing wrong with relying on being a dragon-riding son-in-law, it is not wrong to marry someone else without handling the previous relationship.
As Gu Xin's ex-girlfriend Sun Qi said, he is a weakened version of "Chen Shimei".
There is no doubt that the marriage between Gu Xin and Ge Yue, the daughter of the executive, will definitely go wrong.
From the existing plot, we can find that there have been three fuses that have been ignited, and the newlyweds have great signs of "family change":
First, Gu Xin broke off the connection with his predecessor and was accurately pinched by Ge Yue's father.
At the wedding of Gu Xin and Ge Yue, his ex-girlfriend Sun Qi wanted to "make things" and met Gu Xin in the toilet cubicle.
The lonely man and widow "reminisce" in a confined space, and Sun Qi's intention can be said to be drunk without wine.
However, Gu Xin, who was about to complete the wedding, did not feel that there was a problem with the place where the two met, and was also said by Sun Qi with a look of guilt.
Obviously, Gu Xin did not see through Sun Qi's intentions, but he did not let go of Sun Qi at all, and marrying Ge Yue was not out of love.
Although the intervention of others allowed Gu Xin not to make a big mistake, the marriage without love as a basis was not strong, as long as Sun Qi persistently interfered with Gu Xin, sooner or later he would be disloyal to Ge Yue.
Ge Yue's father was well-informed, and he saw the relationship between Sun Qi and Gu Xin at a glance, and even more saw through Sun Qi's careful thinking.
However, Ge Yue had no choice but to have a deep affection for Gu Xin, and he who spoiled his daughter was not good enough to oppose this family affair, so he had to use some means to intervene.
He arranged for someone to secretly record the video of Sun Qi and Gu Xin meeting, and used this to threaten Sun Qi, warning that if she secretly contacted Gu Xin again, she would use her connections to end Sun Qi's career.
Ge Yue's father's wrist was indeed very "iron", and Sun Qi once had no way to do anything, leaving Gu Xin and Ge Yue safe for a while.
But he underestimated Sun Qi's revenge psychology, and he didn't understand a point: the twisted melon is not sweet!
Using the coercion and inducement in the official arena to escort the marriage will only bring backlash after all.
After Sun Qi revealed Ge Yue's father's means to Gu Xin, Gu Xin was obviously dissatisfied with being unconsciously pinched by his father-in-law.
Second, the two mothers do not deal with each other, and both love to use Gu Xin as a punching bag.
If Gu Xinshang would be jealous of his father-in-law's status and majesty, he could only dare to be angry and dare not speak out.
The mother-in-law and her own mother did not deal with each other, and both loved to use him as a punching bag, which would make Gu Xin completely explode sooner or later.
As early as the first time the mother of the two parents met, Liangzi had already been married.
Gu Xin's mother was not satisfied with the fact that the other party mentioned the "door-to-door son-in-law", which made her feel that her son had been snatched away in person.
Ge Yue's mother, on the other hand, was disgusted by Gu Xin's mother's rude behavior, believing that the family was "not in the flow" at all.
After the two got married, the contradictions between the two parents and mothers were all reflected in Gu Xin.
Gu's mother felt that her son "would only serve his relatives", and in front of her daughter-in-law's face, she began to count Down Gu Xin in a yin and yang manner;
Ge Mu felt that Gu Xin had "climbed high" Ge Yue, and called him around like a person, and bluntly said, "He burns high incense."
In the face of the two mothers' difficulties, Gu Xin's way of dealing with it is to go against the grain and look like "love it".
This is a typical manifestation of not daring to face the problem, which will not make the two mothers reconcile at all, but will make the contradiction continue to accumulate.
The correct approach can refer to Ge Yue, who bluntly pointed out that it was not inappropriate for his mother, and was superficially tolerant of his mother-in-law's inappropriateness, and then mentioned behind his back that his husband took the initiative to help his mother untie the knot.
It's just a pity that Gu Xin and Ge Yue are not the same heart, he has never thought about how to solve the problem, nor does he want to solve the problem.
Third, Ge Yue was too weak in marriage and too blind to Gu Xin's love.
It is estimated that in addition to Ge Yue herself, people with a little eyesight can see that the love between her and Gu Xin is not equal.
When it is necessary to accommodate the other party, Ge Yue is sincerely thinking about Gu Xin, while Gu Xin is "performing", not really good for Ge Yue.
Ge Yue's blindness in love made her mother sweat for her, criticizing her for being "too weak".
From the current plot, it can be seen that Gu Xin, who is gentle and elegant on the surface, is not necessarily a person who understands etiquette and has a gentle personality.
First of all, he didn't care much about the title of the generation, and he didn't care about the wrong title.
Gu Xin was the son of the Gu family's uncle, but he was born later than Gu Qingyu, so he had to call her "cousin" in terms of generations.
However, he called Gu Qingyu "cousin" many times in the play, and according to "different surname table, same surname Tang", Gu Xin's name is obviously rude.
If it weren't for the flaws in the crew, then this behavior can be understood as Gu Xin is actually the same as her mother, not very polite.
Second, he will do something with others when he does not agree, and has a potentially violent tendency.
After sending Feng Xixi to the convenience store, he encountered hooligans who came to the door to make trouble, and Gu Xin wrestled with the other party without saying a word.
Although it is a very pleasant thing to teach a lesson to a hooligan, the first thing he thought of when he encountered the incident was to fight violence with violence, and he did not choose to call the police, let alone choose verbal negotiations. It is very likely to pave the way for the violent side of his personality, and may become a foreshadowing of future domestic violence Ge Yue.
In summary, Gu Xin, who seems to be "good" in all aspects, has actually dug a lot of pits for his life.
If the struggle between Gu Qingyu and Feng Xiaoqin is the point of view in "Heart Residence" that makes people think deeply about what is an "independent woman", then Gu Xin's life of constantly going downhill is a vigilant plot, reminding everyone to be vigilant against those who "take shortcuts" by any means.