Wen 丨 Bodi
Many people will encounter a difficult problem when dating, that is, how to open the first sentence when dating or meeting for the first time and then online dating, or how not to be cold?
In fact, many people have encountered this kind of problem, even the emotional masters of the "long-term love field" will encounter this kind of problem.
Because everyone will show nervousness when facing the opposite sex of their choice, and there will be blank moments in the brain.
There will also be the embarrassment of the cold field, in order to avoid the embarrassment of the cold field, it is necessary to learn to find a random topic.
This embarrassing scene also appears in online chats, where the person you like is waiting for you to speak, but you don't know what kind of opening statement to use.
Today I would like to share with you 7 topics to solve the cold field:
01 What weather and what season do you like
Chatting with gas is a very simple opening statement and the best way to solve the cold field.
You can talk about what kind of weather you like each other, or what season you like, which can be your opening statement or a topic of discussion to solve the cold field.
You can talk about the vitality of the revival of all things in spring, or you can talk about the beautiful summer sunshine, the harvest season in autumn, and the beauty of snow in winter.
In these four seasons, talk about some favorite outdoor sports, etc., each season has its own outdoor sports.
The beautiful scenery and climate of the four seasons will always resonate with you, so that you can have the motivation to continue to talk.
02 Your clothes are so beautiful
When you encounter cold embarrassment and don't know how to open the statement, you can look up and down at each other to see what the other person is wearing.
At this time, I can't help but praise the other party, dressed appropriately and tastefully, which is a good excuse for you to find your own opening statement and solve the cold field.
Nowadays, both boys and girls will carefully dress themselves up before going out, in order to win more eyes from the opposite sex, so as to "dare" to go out.
So it's okay to talk about dressing, use an aesthetic vision, and praise each other with some words of praise.
After such praise, the other party's heart is beautiful, and your story will unfold, which not only solves the cold field but also heats up the feelings between you.
03When I was working, a very interesting thing happened
Tell your own work experience and tell the other party about the fun and interesting things you usually do at work.
Let the other person be your listener, and tell the other person about things at work that can be appropriately funny.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, you will be moved by funny things, so it is a good thing to set off the atmosphere between you.
After the atmosphere is raised, the other party is amused by you, at this time you will feel a sense of success, and your words will increase.
At this time, there is no need to talk about it, and the other party will also evaluate you or tell the other party's work experience and story.
04 There is a house nearby XX snacks taste good
No one would turn down a delicious meal, most people are "foodies" and will be interested in good food.
Don't know how to open the scene or cold, then talk about the nearby food, maybe the other party has also been to that food.
It's going to be a resonance for you, talking about the delicious and unique flavors of that house, and maybe it's going to be the place for your next date.
It will also become a place for you to have dinner together, which may become a testimony of your love.
Food is its own unique charm, boldly talk to each other about food.
05 Recently XX movies made me laugh and cry
Nowadays, we live in a colorful world, watching TV and movies every day, etc., to solve the cold scene, you may wish to talk about a TV series or movie you recently watched.
You can talk about the storyline, the unique protagonist in it, or the funny classic lines and scenes, which can solve the cold scene and the opening scene very well.
If the other person has also seen this movie, then it will become a topic that resonates with you.
If the other person has not seen the movie, it will become a topic that will attract the other person's interest.
In short, a movie can solve your embarrassing cold field problem.
06Do you want to travel? Where is the destination?
The magnificent mountains and rivers of the motherland are waiting for us to appreciate, and at this time we can chat with each other about the magnificent scenery of the motherland.
Ask each other where they like, if you can go together to choose a trip, experience the customs and customs of various places, and feel the magnificent mountains and rivers of the motherland.
In fact, many people like to travel in their hearts, but they lack a common companion.
At this moment, you can speak freely, say where you like the beautiful scenery, and ask the other party where you like.
There is an opportunity to travel together, first to become a travel companion and then to become a partner in life.
07 When I went to school, I was a naughty bag
The memory of going to school is well remembered by everyone, and at that time, whether they were well-behaved or naughty, they all became indispensable good memories in life.
Tell each other about the things you did when you were in school, and the other person will also like to listen to them, after all, they have all had childhoods.
It's easy for two people to resonate, and the next topic will not be interrupted, and you will find that you are a master storyteller.
And your story, the other party is also like a personal experience, your story began at this moment.
Knot: In fact, the cold field is very easy to solve, as long as you make full use of the above 7 ways to solve the cold field, you can become a warm field master.
And with the opposite sex, you can casually open the opening statement, and slowly you will become a master of the love field and find self-confidence.
Only by fully practicing in life and slowly and flexibly mastering these methods and methods, you will also accumulate your own cold field experience.
Tell the story of the places you've been, the things you've eaten, the roads you've traveled, the people you've seen, the knowledge you've learned, and the scenery you've seen.
You will find that you will never lack a topic, let alone a cold field, and every opening statement is the beginning of a new topic. (Wen 丨 Bodi)