Wen 丨 Bodi
Everyone from the beginning of the love sinus to enter the palace of marriage, there will be a number of emotional experiences.
Some of the emotional experiences are unforgettable, some are painful, and the feelings in them are also mixed.
Only those who have experienced complex emotions can truly understand and epiphanize about the complex emotions within them.
Feelings can make people happy in it, can also make people miserable in it, and can make people remember it vividly.
Many times we originally had a very sweet love, but sometimes we did not know how to manage and did not know how to maintain.
The feelings changed their taste and lost their original color, resulting in the two people in the relationship beginning to have a gap.
It is also not advisable to blindly give in feelings, because any giving, if there is no "return", then this payment is meaningless.
Pay to see the effect, see the effect, even if you can't receive the return, but also have the other party's understanding, let the other party understand your intentions.
Only such a relationship is correct, can continue to move forward, and will not be physically and mentally exhausted in this relationship.
Blindly paying will only encourage the other party's temper, gain more than loss, make themselves suffer pain and suffering, and the other party will not get any understanding from the other party.
Loving someone does not mean that you can endure endlessly
Meijia and Xiao Chen are an ordinary couple who have been together for 3 years, and the two people are also stumbling on the road of feelings.
In these 3 years, the two people are also divided and merged, always quarreling over some trivial things, but they can't let go of each other.
Meijia is a particularly jealous girl, sometimes Xiao Chen looks at the girls outside, and the two people will quarrel.
Even Meijia will fight a big hand, no matter what the occasion, Meijia will scold Xiao Chen, and even pick up something to beat Xiao Chen.
This made Xiao Chen very faceless outside, because of this kind of thing, Xiao Chen did not have less conflict with Mei Jia.
Because Meijia is Xiao Chen's first love, Xiao Chen is tolerant of Meijia and it is difficult to give up this feeling.
Suddenly one day Meijia was unwell, Xiao Chen took Meijia to the hospital to check and found that Meijia was pregnant.
After this matter was known to Xiao Chen's parents, they urged the two to get married.
But Meijia did something that everyone did not expect, Meijia refused to marry, and secretly went to have a miscarriage.
This incident made Xiao Chen and his family very angry, and wanted to give Meijia a name, but Meijia's approach was completely unexpected by everyone.
Mei Jia said, "I am still young, my family does not agree to get married so early, and I haven't played enough." ”
I can't be with you, and you don't have to think about it
Xiao Chen's attitude towards Mei Jia also began to change, and Xiao Chen thought that Mei Jia and him were just a waste of each other's time.
Now that there is no love, I am with Meijia just to be able to get married and have children and be happy for a lifetime, but now there is really no need to be together.
So Xiao Chen and Mei Jia proposed to break up, but Mei Jia tried her best to save it and said, "The marriage is a little earlier, and in a few years, we can still have children." ”
Xiao Chen resolutely chose to break up with Mei Jia, and after a while Xiao Chen found a new girlfriend.
After letting Mei Jia know about this, she began to find Xiao Chen and made a big fuss, saying, "Well, leave me to find a new person, since I can't be with you, then break the jar and break it, you don't want to live well." ”
So he often made a big fuss in front of Xiao Chen and his new girlfriend, and said that he still had Xiao Chen's children, which made Xiao Chen's new girlfriend very embarrassed.
In the end, Xiao Chen's new girlfriend thought that Xiao Chen, stepping on two boats at once, led to the final breakup.
Xiao Chen said, "You are too cruel, even if you can't find a girlfriend, you won't be with you." ”
Ben is a pair of intimate lovers, and in the end they are inseparable and unhappy.
Knot: Love needs to be tolerated by each other, it needs to be maintained by two people, if it is only one person to work hard, it is just a lonely palm.
Women who can meet men who truly love you in their lives should know how to cherish, and should not take each other's likes as capital for disguised requirements.
Don't "consume" one person's care and love for you too much, so that you will only lose more in the end, but two people will be hurt in the end.
Sometimes letting go is also a way to bless each other, and since two people have already made the choice to break up, don't interfere in each other's lives.
Giving each other good wishes is also a kind of love, and blessing the other party is also giving yourself a chance to meet a new life.
Don't wear away the remaining emotions of each other, even if you can't be friends after the breakup, don't become an "enemy".
Letting go of the other party is also letting go of yourself, knowing the result, do not disturb each other's lives, it seems to make each other ugly, in fact, the "clown" is himself.
The lost love, let it go with the wind, the future love is waiting for you, with your heart to meet tomorrow, to meet the beautiful future. (Wen 丨 Bodi)