Many parents are crazy in the face of their children's strange behavior. But in fact, behind the behavior of children who are different from ordinary people is a prominent manifestation of the brain's developmental sensitivity.
Therefore, when parents find that their children have the following strange behaviors, do not bother their children, although let the children do it according to their hearts, through your tolerance, the child will become more and more intelligent.
First, pretend to cry
Why don't children shed tears when they cry? In fact, this is the child is acting, they are fake crying. And there is a subtext behind this fake. Or "I need my mother to accompany me", or "ask for attention", or "win more attention from parents".
In short, children will not simply fake crying to show you.
Second, turn things over and hide things
If we can't find something at home, it is likely that the child is hiding, if you are angry, you don't have to, because this is a stage of the child's psychological development, they not only love to hide things, but also willing to turn things over. Let the family become a pot of porridge, often make the children very happy, and at the same time of happiness, the child's exercise-oriented thinking has also been cultivated, and the intelligence has also improved!
Third, always take adult things to wear
I remember that when I was a child, I liked to wear my mother's high heels, and I broke my feet because of it, and even wore my mother's cheongsam to show off and run everywhere. Now that I am a mother, I know through learning how wronged I was by my mother's reprimand for this matter, which is basically a stage in the child's growth process, imitation.
They use this to learn from the people around them, and judge and understand for themselves, and then combine their own strengths to explore new things.
Fourth, follow the parents to do the same expression and action 0 this series of behaviors, but also the process of learning, those children with strong learning and imitation ability are absolutely not inferior in intelligence. Their IQ and emotional intelligence are generally not bad.
Although these strange behaviors of children, parents understand that it is a good thing, but out of the concept of adults, it is inevitable to manage children, in fact, management is correct, but pay attention to methods.
First of all, we must understand consciously that the child's various behaviors are basically the most normal phenomena in the development process.
Secondly, we need to understand that if you want to correct your child's strange behavior, you need to focus all your attention on the child, because some children deliberately make strange things, and the basic purpose is to attract attention. When we usually pay more attention to our children, children will pay attention to their parents' requirements for their own education and.
Finally, we as parents must respect our children's instinct to explore the world, they understand things other than cognition, and we must give them enough space and time. We even need to take the initiative to guide children to pay attention to the small objects of life and help children explore the mysteries of the world.
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