As the saying goes, a woman is weak, but a mother is strong. Once a woman becomes a mother, she will mature instantly and be willing to sacrifice herself for the sake of her children. But there are also some women, who are not online, under the banner of the good of their children, but they bring their children to the pit everywhere. There are several such mothers in the dream of the Red Chamber.
For example, Jin Rong's mother, Hu Shi, learned that her son was angry at fighting with people in the academy, and did not understand the origin of the matter, but directly reprimanded her son and asked him to have a good relationship with Xue Pan, and Jin Rong could only swallow his anger.
What Jin Rong's mother didn't know was that her son, not only didn't study well, but he was also adopted by Xue Pan as a brother, and where did he get back the silver he took home for no reason?
As a mother, her concern never seems to be whether her son can learn well, whether he is mentally healthy, whether he is bullied in school, but in any case, he must not lose the opportunity to study in Jia Fu Academy, this opportunity is not easy not to say, more importantly, Jin Rong studied here, not only can not spend the family's money, but also from time to time to send money to the home.
A mother, who does not care why her son fights with others, does not care how much he has been wronged in the school, does not care about the child's mental health, does not ask about the red and red is a discipline, only knows verbal violence, and is obviously not a qualified mother. Even, it's a bit stupid.
There were so many students in the academy, even if Xue Pan had money, why didn't she help others, but help her son? She probably didn't think much about the problem. As a son, Jin Rong naturally does not take the initiative to tell his mother.
Another example is You Second Sister You Third Sister's mother You Lao niang, this mother can be "not simple", the first husband died, immediately with two daughters to remarry You's father, You's father died, no one to rely on her, and then looked at the wealth of Jia Province, so she took two daughters into Jia Province.
Where is this Jia House so easy to enter? In particular, the filthy and notorious Ningguo Mansion has long been made into a miasma by Jia Zhen's father and son, and even cats and dogs are probably not clean.
With the shrewdness of Old Lady You, she may not know that it is dirty, but she still pretends to be deaf and dumb, and in order to have a good old age, she pulls her two daughters out of the water, and she herself allows Jia Zhen's father and son to get involved with her two daughters under the guise of sleeping happily in her youth.
A mother, just because she can't stand poverty, takes her two daughters as bait, and sacrifices their most precious virginity and innocence as a chip in exchange for her wealth in her old age.
Under the connivance of Old Lady You, as a result, Second Sister You was secretly married by Jia Lian, but the stolen gong could not be knocked, and Second Sister You was finally humiliated and committed suicide by swallowing gold. As for You Sanjie, because of ning guofu's bad reputation outside, she was implicated by it, and was pulled out of her sword by Liu Xianglian after she retired from marriage.
It seems that You Second Sister You Third Sister is committing suicide and has nothing to do with her mother, You Lao Niang, but if it were not for this selfish and rich mother, how could Er You enter Ning Mansion and become a plaything of Jia Zhen's father and son, and finally xiang yu died?
A mother, who does not teach her children to be kind, but also pushes them into the pit of fire, and destroys their reputation and life with their own hands.
Equally stupid is Tanchun and Jia Huan's birth mother, Aunt Zhao. Aunt Zhao was Jia Zheng's concubine, and with this identity, she could have lived a relatively comfortable life. And the children are complete, but if she is smart, she will not mix with the role that everyone does not want to see.
But Aunt Zhao doesn't seem to want to let anyone treat her, she has been a broken jar from the appearance, well, fight for herself some decency, not good, make trouble, anyway, her life has been like this, where can it be bad?
For Aunt Zhao, even if she is a mother, she seems to have never considered the feelings of her children, never had a brain before doing things, and always harbored the malice that since she had a bad life, she could not let others be better.
She is open-minded, face and dignity do not want to, besides, who has given her face and dignity? But has she ever thought that her son is the third master of Jia Fu, and her daughter is the third miss of Jia Fu, and they want face and dignity.
She can ignore it, anyway, life is already like this, the position of a rich concubine is already the ceiling of life for her, and no matter how noisy it is, it will not be bad. But Aunt Zhao's stupidity lies in the fact that although she has a pair of children, she has never exuded the radiance of motherhood.
Aunt Zhao is not a qualified mother, and even she is more stupid than Jin Rong's mother and Eryou's mother, for the concubines living in the rich, their greatest capital has never been the favor of their husbands, let alone their own sense of existence, but the contention of their children.
Aunt Zhao was more peaceful, like Li Feng taught Jia Lan, teach Jia Huan well, even if she couldn't help academically, but at least don't help it. Perhaps Jia Huan will become a handsome and talented aristocratic young master like Baoyu. Even if Tanchun was not raised around, if she was as peaceful as Aunt Zhou, with Tanchun's excellence, why should she worry about not being decent?
But the reality is that in the face of Aunt Zhao's tossing, the young Jia Huan was taught by his mother's crooked intentions, full of anger and hatred, and became an equally unpopular little frozen cat. Although Tanchun, who did not grow up around Aunt Zhao, became an ambitious and ambitious thorny rose, she could face her birth mother's public demolition and humiliation again and again, and she had no choice but to cry again and again.
Such a stupid mother, it is no wonder that Jia Huan, who gradually became sensible later, no longer listened to her mother's encouragement and support, not to mention Tanchun's estrangement from her.
Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.