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Siqi and You Sanjie: The pinnacle of love tragedy

Siqi and You Sanjie: The pinnacle of love tragedy
Siqi and You Sanjie: The pinnacle of love tragedy
Siqi and You Sanjie: The pinnacle of love tragedy

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Before that, my reading and experience of "Dream of the Red Chamber" was basically from the perspective of individual characters. Today, I want to make a new attempt – in fact, this is also an idea that I formed unconsciously. Regardless of the floweriness of the rhetoric and the restraint of the use of words, it is like a kind of conversation, recording the accidental tacit understanding that I formed with Mr. Cao Xueqin and Mr. Gao Yan on the description of love tragedy, as well as a new view of love tragedy.

Readers who carefully understand "Dream of the Red Chamber" know that Mr. Cao Xueqin's recognition of the original "Dream of the Red Chamber" is eighty times. The popular passage is one hundred and twenty times, and the last forty times are continued by Mr. Gao Hu. And literature is a thing that is very subjective. Therefore, even if "Dream of the Red Chamber" is a novel with thousands of miles of grass snake gray lines and many foreshadowings, it is easy to completely restore the original meaning of Mr. Cao Xueqin's original pen after eighty times.

Therefore, Mr. Gao's sequel has also been questioned by many fans and scholars. And as an ordinary fan of "Dream of the Red Chamber", I am naturally not qualified to evaluate Mr. Gao's sequel. Therefore, I prefer to discover what Mr. Cao Xueqin and Mr. Gao Have in common when writing.

In the following, I will analyze the common points in the writing of Mr. Cao Xueqin and Mr. Gao Yan from the similarities between SiQi and The love tragedies of Pan You'an, You Sanjie and Liu Xianglian.

Siqi and You Sanjie: The pinnacle of love tragedy

The story of SiQi and Pan You'an is preceded by Cao Gong's narration, and the ending is concluded by Mr. Gao Yan.

Siqi is the big man of Yingchun. Compared with Yuan Chun, Tan Chun, and Xi Chun, who are big men holding the piano, waiting (to be) books, and entering paintings, Cao Gong has a special love for Si Qi, and he does not spare ink for her, through the love story of his cousin Pan You'an, to show the character characteristics of Si Qi.

The love story between the two broke out on the eve of the raid on the Grand View Garden. The two bought the mother-in-law who went to the night and met privately in the Grand View Garden, but were discovered by the Mandarin Duck. Although after pleading bitterly, mandarin ducks may have promised to keep their promises for them, but after Pan You'an left the Grand View Garden that night, he suddenly disappeared. This really hurt Si Qi's heart.

To make matters worse, paper can't contain fire. Soon after the inspection of the Grand View Garden, Pan You'an's promise of love with SiQi and the correspondence were confiscated, and Siqi had to face the point of being driven away. It just so happened that she met the cowardly Yingchun master again, and she didn't have the slightest chance to stay in the Grand View Garden.

Reading this, I believe that some readers will think that the chess is self-inflicted. First, to make love with his cousin is already corrupting ethics and morality; second, he dared to buy off his mother-in-law who went to the night and have a private meeting in the Grand View Garden, which is also a disregard for the strict class system of Jia Fu; third, he even dared to take the two people's love letters with him, which is even more self-inflicted.

Of course, there will also be some readers who will applaud Siqi for daring to pursue happiness and not hesitate to break through the oppression of feudal etiquette and the constraints of ethics and morality.

Here, I believe that both views are justified and will not be commented upon. But it is undeniable that the story of Siqi is a tragedy after all. In addition to the pitiful abandonment of the master, it is more of a tragic ending to the love between Pan You'an and Siqi.

On the night when they were discovered by the Mandarin Duck, the two people must have taken the oath of the sea oath and made a vow to the death together. But things are not human, and the cocoon of his day has become the butterfly of today, and he does not know where to fly. If abandonment becomes the end of love, then there is no doubt that it is a tragedy. We resent Pan You'an's unkindness, and we pity Siqi's innocence. At this point, the story of Siqi seems to be able to draw a satisfactory end.

However, Mr. Gao Did not end his exploration and description of Siqi. After being driven out, Siqi carried huge reputational pressure and spiritual baggage and lived like a year. She was insulted by her parents and ridiculed by her neighbors. At this time, she had only one belief in living, that is, to wait until Pan You'an's lost return.

One day, this "negative man" will come back. She opened the hidden door, in disbelief, her mind constantly remembering the night when the two of them had sworn a mountain alliance. All she wanted now was for him to give her an answer.

Siqi pleaded with his mother. But in the face of the boy who ruined her daughter's life's reputation, her mother was only angry and dissatisfied. The two never had a chance to talk. In the face of his mother's fierce heart, Siqi, who is loyal to love, chose to throw himself into the wall and die. This moment seems to be the reincarnation of Siqi's life and the end of the story.

However, such a tragedy is far from touching the deepest part of every reader's soul. Subsequently, Pan You'an's approach was even more regrettable. He bought two coffins and explained that he had earned money outside and came back this time to marry Siqi. However, he did not know whether Siqi was a greedy person for money, so he pretended not to speak, just to test. After saying that, he took out a sharp blade between his sleeves and wiped his neck backwards to follow Si Qi.

Reading this, I believe that readers who have some understanding are bound to suffer from the pain of colic from the depths of their souls. What a pair of mandarin ducks! Each is misunderstanding each other. Such an ending will make people feel more sad and painful.

Siqi and You Sanjie: The pinnacle of love tragedy

This is the cleverness of Mr. Takahata's writing of the tragic ending of love. He transforms the anger of abandonment into the pity of remorse, further sublimating the reader's understanding of the tragedy of love. And Mr. Cao Xueqin's handwriting on the tragedy of love is even more remarkable. Below, let's walk into the end of the love tragedy between You Sanjie and Liu Xianglian.

You Sanjie is a woman who walks in fireworks alley all day, in a class of eternal oppression, doing unspeakable work. However, she also has the courage and belief to face life and not accept defeat. She wants to change, and she also longs to pursue a happy and beautiful love of her own.

Finally, on this day, she attended a banquet. In the vast sea of people, the four eyes are facing each other. At that moment, the two originally strange hearts had the first momentary intertwining. At this moment, she had the direction and motivation to "change evil and return to righteousness". She began to abide by her feminine virtues and protect her remaining virginity. She was waiting, waiting for Heaven to give her another chance to harvest love.

The Emperor's heavens paid off. Through Jia Lian's introduction, Liu Xianglian agreed to the marriage with You Sanjie and left a pair of Mandarin duck swords as a promise of love. It seems that a beautiful marriage is about to be completed, but I don't know that a tragedy of love has "appeared on the scene".

Liu Xianglian returned to the capital, and he found Baoyu to explore the details of You Sanjie. After learning about it, he said the classic quote:

"Except for the two stone lions in your east house, I am afraid that even the cats and dogs are not clean." I don't do this leftover king eight. ”

These two sentences have also become a microcosm of the extravagant chaos of Jia Fu. Subsequently, Liu Xianglian went to see Old Lady You, hoping to get rid of this family affair.

This was a great blow to You Sanjie. In order to pursue this love, she has no idea how many sleepless nights there are. She had thought that sweet love had quietly come to her side, but she did not know that she was still a negative person who hated herself as an obscene and shameless person. Wouldn't it be boring if you were self-assured and refused to divorce? Therefore, where to allow Liu Xianglian to say filthy words and humiliate herself:

Hide a female blade behind her elbow, come out and say, "You don't have to go out and discuss it again, and pay back your gift!" With tears pouring down his face, he gave the sword and sheath to Xianglian with his left hand, and his right hand returned to his elbow, only to cross the neck.

A beautiful, loyal life came to an end. Liu Xianglian looked at the third sister lying in a pool of blood, and she was already at a loss, regretting that she should not blindly suspect that she had lost such a strong and virtuous wife.

Of course, the death of the third sister is only part of this love tragedy. Xianglian is the guide of this love tragedy, and at the same time he is also the victim of this love tragedy. After the third sister died because of him, although Xianglian's flesh was there, her heart had already gone with the third sister. Perhaps for the worldly epiphany, monasticism is also a little comfort for this love tragedy.

Siqi and You Sanjie: The pinnacle of love tragedy

Through the ending of Mr. Gao's love tragedy for Siqi and Pan You'an, and Mr. Cao Xueqin's ending to the love tragedy of You Sanjie and Liu Xianglian, it is not difficult to see that Mr. Gao Hu has conducted some hard work on Cao Gong's writing style.

This kind of writing method of love tragedy can give the reader a surprise. When we hate Pan You'an's treachery and complain about Liu Xianglian's ignorance, we may have prematurely set the tone for this love tragedy. The two people invariably wrote that in love, it is not the men and women who make mistakes with each other, but the feudal gripper behind the times. This claw pushes two people who pursue love into the abyss. Perhaps, this is the most peak way to write a love tragedy.

From the contrast between these two love tragedies, we can also see the deeper meaning contained in Mr. Cao Xueqin's writing of "Dream of the Red Chamber".

As we all know, "Dream of the Red Chamber" is a novel that praises women and liberates women. In that era, it was not easy for Cao Gong to have this idea that everyone was equal. Daiyu's affection, Baochao's propriety, Tanchun's ability, Fengjie's shrewdness... "Dream of the Red Chamber" speaks for women all the time and is moved by women.

On the contrary, Jia Zhen's fornication, Jia Huan's lust, Jia Lian's arrogance, Jia Rong's greed, and even Xue Pan's stupidity... The men in "Dream of the Red Chamber" seem to be so unbearable.

However, from Pan You'an and Liu Xianglian, we seem to be able to read the responsibilities and responsibilities of male roles from the bottom of society. Therefore, in the novel "Dream of the Red Chamber", the author is not only speaking out for women, but also praising some male characters who have responsibilities and responsibilities at the bottom.

Siqi and You Sanjie: The pinnacle of love tragedy

Finally, let's talk about our understanding and thoughts about the tragedy of two loves. Two tragedies, a lot in common.

One is the mistrust between two people.

If Pan You'an had enough trust in Siqi to explain his origins before Siqi hit the wall and died, perhaps the tragedy would not have happened. Instead, two people will have a beautiful love affair.

By analogy, if Liu Xianglian did not suspect You Sanjie's feelings for him, the two people would not end up in martyrdom and monasticism.

Of course, this trust is based on a sufficient understanding of each other, and this trust is also reflected in ordinary bits and pieces. Therefore, if you want to manage a long-term sweet love, trust should be reflected in ordinary times. To make mutual trust a habit, suspicious love is never long-lasting.

Second, the asymmetry and distortion of information are also important causes of love tragedy.

For Siqi and Pan You'an, Siqi did not know that Pan You'an was going out for their future good life. On the contrary, when Si Qi learned of the news of Pan You'an's going out at the time of the East Window Incident of their private meeting, he was bound to think that Pan You'an had absconded in fear of sin and forgot the oath made by the two of them. This is a kind of information asymmetry, which will produce misunderstandings and eventually lead to tragic results.

As far as Liu Xianglian and You Sanjie were concerned, Liu Xianglian only heard about the relationship between You Sanjie and Ning Guofu, and she made up her mind that the third sister was an impure person. This is a distortion of information. As everyone knows, You Sanjie's character is chaste, and she has long been away from the fireworks alley for Liu Xianglian, and she only wants a happy life with a case and an eyebrow. Distorted information, exacerbated the suspicion between the two, and in the end it was a lamentable tragedy.

Therefore, in love, always check the symmetry and authenticity of the information between each other. Often misunderstandings are caused by impulses triggered by information from different sources. This is also one of the causes of many love tragedies.

The third is the ridicule and ridicule of the secular vision of the feudal etiquette system.

There is no doubt that the love between Siqi and Pan You'an is not accepted by the world; the love of cousins is against the ethical norms. This spirit of courage is commendable. But when two people fall in love with each other from the moment, it is a mistake, and it is already a tragedy of love. What's more, the demands of the times do not allow the slaves at the bottom to fall in love freely, which is more certain of the occurrence of this tragedy.

For Liu Xianglian and You Sanjie, the storm from the feudal etiquette system was even more ferocious. One is a drama, a woman who was once a woman who has fallen into the alley of fireworks; one is self-respecting and high, and the other is chastity. Such a love combination, in the face of the oppression of the feudal etiquette system, seems even more vulnerable. They are not born with the right to choose love. Therefore, their repeated attempts to break through class discrimination will only be cut by the scythe wielded by the feudal ruling class.

The tragedy of love is never the ruthlessness and abandonment of one party. This can only be an unsatisfactory ending of love. The real tragedy of love is always the helplessness and regret of loving each other but not being able to break through the cage of the world.

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