You Sanjie is the most tragic woman who died in "Dream of the Red Chamber", drawing a sword and killing herself, blood splashing on the ground, like the peach blossoms that were destroyed by the storm in the third spring, flying red in a flash, and the incense disappeared and the jade died, which is a pity. Originally, it was a time of fanghua, like a flower, and the way to say goodbye to the world was also so determined, which required great courage, but also because of the complete despair of the world, and there was no longer the slightest intention of nostalgia.
So, who killed Third Sister You?
The most direct reason is Liu Xianglian's resignation. You Sanjie couldn't hang on to her face, and under shame and anger, she made this move. When Third Sister You killed herself, everyone gave first aid. Old Lady You cried and scolded Xianglian at the same time. Jia Lian grabbed Xianglian and ordered someone to bundle up and send her to the official. It can be seen that everyone feels that the culprit is Liu Xianglian. If it were not for Liu Xianglian's rebellion, who first agreed to the marriage and later repented, Third Sister You would not have been discouraged and would not even want her life. It was really a waste of you third sister's deep affection for him, but he failed you third sister!
But at this time, Second Sister You said that people did not threaten him, he was looking for short-sightedness, so you sent him to the official, what is the benefit? Second Sister You's words are not unreasonable. Liu Xianglian did not directly do anything to You Sanjie, or wanted her life. Even before, they had rarely seen each other, and perhaps Liu Xianglian didn't even know who Third Sister You was. Why did Liu Xianglian want to harm her?
As for You Sanjie's deep affection for Liu Xianglian, Liu Xianglian really didn't know it. Liu Xianglian knows very little about You Sanjie, one is that she is absolutely beautiful, and the other is that she is You's sister. When he heard the absolute beauty, he gladly agreed, but when he returned to his senses, he felt that except for the two stone lions in the East Mansion, even the cats and dogs were not clean, let alone such a Peugeot person, and he was not sure how to fool around in it.
Does Liu Xianglian have the right to know, and does she have the right to choose? Did Third Sister You like him, and he had to answer this family affair? He also has the right to say no. Moreover, he felt that anyway, a woman like You Sanjie had no reputation anymore, so she wouldn't care about fame, right?
Of course, Liu Xianglian thought wrongly, and in ancient times, retiring from marriage was detrimental to the reputation of women. Others and even Third Sister You could not value it, but he could not fail to give her this respect. Since he should be cautious, he should not have happily agreed at that time, but should have learned more before giving an answer. In that way, Third Sister You will not have too many expectations, and if she does not succeed, she will not be too embarrassed and feel that it is difficult to see people. Exactly, I did not kill Bo Ren, but Bo Ren died because of me.
The direct reason for Liu Xianglian's resignation was still listening to the words of jia baoyu with a big mouth. Liu Xianglian went to inquire about Baoyu, and Baoyu was also unobstructed, and told a rough idea of the situation inside. What he said was "He is the two sisters brought by the stepmother of Jane's sister-in-law." I was there for a month with them, how come I don't know? What a pair of special things! - His surname is You. "Listen, it's been a month! How did it mix? This is a reverie. Baoyu was actually similar to those stupid children.
When Liu Xianglian shouted badly, she continued to ask her how her character was. Bao Yu was also frank, "Since you know it well, you have come to ask me what I do?" Even I may not be clean. At this point, it was also admitted that Third Sister You was a shameless and lascivious person. If it were not for Baoyu's words, Liu Xianglian might still be hesitant, but Liu Xianglian, who knew the inside story, also made up her mind at this time.
Is Baoyu wrong? That seems to be true. He was honest with his friends and told the truth. The You sisters do have a lot of stains, and Baoyu has not yet said more dirty things. He couldn't always open his eyes and talk about it blindly, and he didn't know Third Sister You's affection for Liu Xianglian, if he knew this layer and talked to Xianglian well, maybe there would be a turnaround. And Jia Baoyu also indirectly criticized Liu Xianglian, you originally said that as long as there is a stunning color. Now that you have a wonderful color, you have just done it, so why doubt it? It can be seen that Liu Xianglian not only wants to be absolutely beautiful, but also a woman with a clean family, and he should also make it clear before, so that he can also save a lot of misunderstandings and troubles.
Who killed Third Sister You?
In fact, Jia Lian, Jia Zhen's father and son are the sinners who are even bigger than Liu Xianglian! These rich men who have more than one desire, indulge in pleasure, and live a life of erosion, if it were not for them, the You sisters would not have lost their innocence, been spurned and hated! You Sanjie died, Jia Lian was busy to report to the officials, and before, it was also he who enthusiastically ran for You Sanjie, Zhang Luo's engagement, it seems that he is really a good brother-in-law. But don't forget, at first, Jia Lian also wanted to hook up with You Sanjie, but You Sanjie had no intention of choosing You Erjie. In the eyes of Jia Lian and others, such a beautiful You sister is a lamb to be slaughtered for their enjoyment.
When the You sisters came to Ningguo Mansion, they became the playthings of Jia Zhen's father and son. This is also a risk to be taken advantage of. But Fan Jia Zhen and others have a little bit of courtesy, righteousness and shame, they should pay attention to keeping a distance from the sisters-in-law, so as not to ruin their reputation, but Jia Zhen completely ignores the relationship between relatives, let alone his wife You Shi, and the two aunts have already had a beginning and an end. If there is a father, there must be a son, and Jia Rong is also covetous of the You sisters.
Some people said that You Sanjie was innocent and did not let them get their hands on it. This is ridiculous, what is Ning Guofu? Even Miss Zhengyi Jia Xichun avoided it, for fear of being tired of fame! Jia Zhen and others are not stupid, if there is no cheap to take advantage of, will they eat and drink well for the You sisters? What's more, You Third Sister later gave You Second Sister a dream, and also admitted that she and her sister were both unscrupulous people. Whether it is fame or chastity, the You sisters are lost here!
Jia Zhen and the others caused You Sanjie to lose her reputation, which was equivalent to waving a knife at her, and the knife was in the fatal place. You Sanjie wanted to go ashore to wash white, but she was already powerless and was not allowed by the environment. As long as Ning Guofu is mentioned, she can't get rid of it, and her beauty has become a sin.
After You Sanjie's death, her mother, You Lao Niang, cried while scolding Liu Xianglian. In fact, how could this insatiable woman not have harmed her own daughter with her own hands? The You sisters were young and ignorant, but they were taken to the thief ship by their mother, and the old lady you herself did not have a sense of chastity, and remarried with two oil bottles, and the family situation of the You family was not so poor. Moreover, when You Shi married into Jia Province, he could also give some financial support to his mother's family.
But for you old lady who enjoys the habit, it is just a cup of water and cannot be satisfied. Two daughters who grew up and were amazingly beautiful became the capital for her to live a good life. She knew where Ning Guofu was, but she took her two daughters with her, and turned a blind eye to the teasing of Jia Zhen and others, but she was very proud that there was such a mother in the world! Personally send your daughter to the fire rack!
But Fan, You Sanjie has a normal, self-respecting mother, she will not have such an unfortunate ending, nor will she take so many detours. At a young age, she was not well guided, which was a sad thing, more terrible than the lack of material things.
What is this old woman who has lost her daughter crying? Is he crying about his daughter's death, or is he crying that he has lost another piece of dependence for the rest of his life, or that he has a trace of remorse in his heart? I'm afraid there won't be.
At the time of the avalanche, no snowflake was innocent, and You Sanjie herself was actually not completely responsible. It is undeniable that she yearns for a good life and wants to belong to the object of her choice, which is not wrong, but she does not know each other, so she pays a piece of infatuation, but it is more like she fell in love with the perfect idol in her heart.
She hopes that the other party can take herself out of the sea of suffering and give herself a plain but romantic life. She only relied on a wish, with a beautiful imagination, but she did not think that reality may not be as desired. Everything needs to be prepared with both hands, and when all the eggs are put in one basket, in case the chickens fly and the eggs are beaten, there is no way to remedy it.
In the final analysis, although Third Sister You is very determined and wants to break with the past, it is a pity that in this world, in addition to herself, who can really redeem others? Liu Xianglian, not so much power. He, like other men, is unavoidable. Even if you agree to be with You Sanjie, it will not be a happy ending, and life after marriage may make You Sanjie despair. You Sanjie couldn't bear the pain of life, and Liu Xianglian couldn't bear it either. In that era, a woman with a bad reputation, the saliva of everyone could drown her, and if she lost her footing, she must have been hated for eternity, there was no reason to speak, and there was no chance to start again.
It is precisely because of the cruelty of the living environment, You Sanjie is completely desperate, she knows what it means to retire from marriage, a good family woman can die for retiring, she is a woman without a reputation, it should not matter, right? No, in fact, she also longs to be respected and loved, and when all this is empty talk, it is better to live than to die. When she was alive, she was a slut, indefensible, and when she died, she became a martyr, and everyone mourned for her, and Liu Xianglian wept bitterly for her and regretted it. Perhaps, such an ending is much better than surviving.
In this world, there is no greater sorrow than death. Third Sister You was like this, and why was this not the case with the later Second Sister You? When they want to return to their normal families and pursue their own happiness, in the way are countless jackals, tigers and leopards, even if they spit out at random, they can become the last straw that crushes the camel. You Third Sister, who is not willing to be inferior, knows that she has no way to live, and Second Sister You is being abused enough by everyone to wake up, it seems that they have chosen two completely different paths, but in fact, they have never come out of the predicament of life.
Author: Ah Wu, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.