"Dream of the Red Chamber" is a book that writes about "love seeds", so the first sentence of the "Dream of the Red Chamber Introduction" in the fifth song of the Dream of the Red Chamber sings: "Open up Hongmeng, who is the love seed?" That is to say, all the characters who write big books in "Dream of the Red Chamber" are all love species, Jia Baoyu is, and You Sanjie is also...
They are characters living in the spiritual world, they regard feelings above all else, they are more eager for the purity and purity of the spiritual world, they interact with people, they are at a higher level of spiritual fellowship, they walk in the world, pay more attention to the truth, they are more willing to give their all to "love", sometimes, this "love", not focused on a single object, Lin Daiyu and Qingwen are of course "love species", but they are more obsessed, is another kind of "love species", they are only obsessed with a single object, otherwise, they are dust.
(Love little sister shame return to the mansion)
You Sanjie and Jia Baoyu are the same kind of people, so when You Sanjie heard Xing'er relay Baoyu's behavior, she understood Baoyu very well, she said:
I looked at it coldly, and it turned out that he had gone anyway in front of the girls, but it was not very suitable for outsiders, so they did not know. (Sixty-six times)
It is precisely because of this passage that Qi Benzhi commented that "when You Sanjie lost her body, she wore heavy makeup and insulted the group." After choosing a husband, he prayed to the Buddha and fasted, and worshipped the old mother. Can distinguish Baoyu, can recognize Xianglian, and is a first-class figure of Red Breeze and Wenjun. ("Zhou Ruchang's Revised And Approved Stone Record", 2017, Yilin Publishing House, p. 860) To put it bluntly, You Sanjie is different from ordinary women in the world, she is a special and passionate person, a person who dares to boldly and persistently pursue love, like Hongfu, like Zhuo Wenjun, because Hongfu was once a prostitute, and Zhuo Wenjun is a widow, and they all have an unbearable past.
(Red Breeze Night Run)
"Dream of the Red Chamber" is a tragedy, Lu Xun said that "tragedy is to destroy the valuable things of life to show people" (Lu Xun, the first volume of the Complete Works of Lu Xun, 1981, People's Literature Publishing House, page 192), and "Dream of the Red Chamber" is "'Wan Yan' with sorrow", is "'Thousand Reds' a cry", it describes not only the sorrow of Daiyu, the sorrow of "Twelve Chao", but the sorrow of many daughters, the fate of characters like You Sanjie, it is one of the countless tragic fates, so You Sanjie died, died heroically, died decisively, Her tragedy is typical, and her tragedy represents the tragedy of a class of people.
In short, You Sanjie is dead, died of suicide, but suicide should also be responsible, although there is no legal responsibility (Liu Xianglian almost bears legal responsibility), so it should be guilty in the heart. Therefore, we came to find the person responsible for the death of Third Sister You:
First of all, Liu Xianglian, he is definitely responsible.
Liu Xianglian's own criteria for choosing relatives are very simple: absolutely beautiful! This is the standard for most men to choose a mate, and it has always been a face-watching society throughout the ages. Therefore, when Jia Lian mentioned You Sanjie, he did not hesitate, full of promises, and said, "The eldest husband has no reason to be untrustworthy", and immediately gave Jia Lian the "treasure of the generation" Mandarin Duck Sword in his family for jia Lian to take to You Sanjie as a gift, neither asking nor inquiring, Jia Lian said that he listened to everything, this must be wrong, the promise is not light, let alone a lifelong event.
(Xianglian Liu)
In fact, it was Liu Xianglian's wrong decision that made You Sanjie embark on the road of no return, why, because Liu Xianglian gave You Sanjie the hope of seeing the light in her gray life, when Jia Lian took the Mandarin Duck Sword to her, You Sanjie "was overjoyed, hurriedly received, hung on her embroidery bed, looked at the sword every day, laughed at herself for life", she had hope for life, felt that she could look forward to the future, and since she had agreed to the marriage, then her unbearable past could be revealed. She had the passion to start her life over again.
Liu Xianglian was still at fault, when Baoyu gave him a good day, he already knew that You Sanjie was "absolutely beautiful", but he was suspicious because of "absolutely beautiful", and felt that good things should not fall on his head. That is to say, he only remembered at this time to ask for details, ask for understanding, and regret that he should not have left a fixed gift. Therefore, Baoyu would say to him, "You were originally a delicate person, how did you make a promise and wonder?" You said that you only needed one brilliant color, and now you have obtained a beautiful color. Why doubt it? This makes sense, your original condition was "absolutely beautiful", and now you require that this "absolutely beautiful" has not passed. This is another mistake.
Immediately after the mistake, when he heard Bao Yu say that Eryou had lived in Ning Province for a while, Liu Xianglian immediately felt inappropriate and said, "This is not good, it is absolutely impossible to do." Except for the two stone lions in your east house, I am afraid that even the cats and dogs are not clean. I don't do this leftovers. This is the fault of "overturning a boat of people with a pole", like "regional black", all the people in a certain place are not good people, making Baoyu have nothing to say.
(Tips)
Of course, Liu Xianglian's biggest mistake was to go straight to Jia Lian's second sister's residence and lie to set the ceremony. He said that his family had set himself up (this was the reason he made up, of course not), and asked for the gift. Therefore, Jia Lian rebuked him, "Fix the one, set the one." I was afraid of repentance. Is there a matter of marriage, and it is free to come and go? Discretion also. In fact, Jia Lian is a person with a bottom line, and his blame is reasonable, this is Liu Xianglian's reckless decision again, this time reckless, directly taking You Sanjie's life. If he handled it a little more gently, maybe the stimulation for You Sanjie would not be so strong, but unfortunately, there was no if.
Of course, Liu Xianglian is also a person of the most affectionate nature, but also a "love species", it is precisely because of this that he can make friends with Bao Yu, and after You Sanjie's suicide, he can definitely become a monk, perhaps, this is also the punishment of fate for his repeated mistakes! He didn't deserve a wife like You Sanjie, just imagine, if there was no such thing as his insistence on retiring, under the arrangement of Aunt Xue and Xue Pan, what a happy "pair" it would be!
The second person responsible should be Jia Baoyu.
Jia Baoyu's mistake lies in the fact that he told Liu Xianglian that You Sanjie was "absolutely beautiful" and "special", but did not make any "additional explanations". When Liu Xianglian asked You Sanjie about her conduct, he replied to Liu Xianglian "with a hurry", "Since you know it well, you also come to ask me what I do?" Even I may not be clean. This is equivalent to indirectly proving that Liu Xianglian's judgment is correct, You Sanjie is indeed "not clean", in fact, it is equivalent to adding another layer of proof to Liu Xianglian's judgment, which is actually the direct trigger for Liu Xianglian's retirement, even if Jia Baoyu says "I don't know too much about it", will the impetuous Liu Xianglian think about it again?
(Dialogue between Liu Xianglian and Baoyu)
I guess so. But can this blame Baoyu, it seems that neither can it. In that situation, what could Baoyu say? He did not understand Third Sister You, but he was also responsible for his brother's future.
The third person responsible should be You Sanjie herself.
Is There something wrong with Third Sister You? Maybe there is, because she lost her virginity in front.
But in Chinese culture, it is easy to forgive men for making mistakes, the so-called "prodigal son returns to gold and does not change", for women to lose their virginity, it is absolutely unforgivable, just like tofu fell into the coal pile, no matter how it is not washed. This concept is not only deeply rooted in the hearts of men, but also deeply rooted in the hearts of women like You Sanjie, so when Liu Xianglian came to ask for a ceremony, she felt ashamed, felt that life was meaningless, she swung her sword and killed herself, there was no explanation, no defense, because it was useless to say more, in her heart, she could prove her high purity, only one death!
(You Sanjie)
In fact, even if she died, her reputation for infidelity could not be erased, and Feng Jie's later evaluation of her was still "originally a bastard rotten peach" (sixty-seven times).
However, the ending of You Sanjie and Liu Xianglian is predestined, and they are "hung up" at the police fairy, so You Sanjie will dream to Liu Xianglian and tell him that he has been "obsessed with Jun for five years", and said that the cause of his death was "mistakenly confused by love in his previous life, and now he is ashamed and feels ashamed, and has no interference with Jun." ”
Jia Baoyu should take part of the responsibility for you Sanjie's death, because Jia Baoyu is also a person of the most affectionate nature, he cannot calmly and rationally deal with Liu Xianglian's questioning, "love seeds" have always been hot, they can't get cold.
([Follow the pudding to read "The Red Chamber"] No. 141, picture from the Internet)