Author: Sasha
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Sasha is serious nonsense No. 342
Why did Jiao Da in "Dream of the Red Chamber" fall to the point where everyone did not want to see it? Sometimes you can't tell the truth
Because Jiao Da made several major mistakes:
First, be proud of your achievements.
In the "Deer Ding", even the little eunuch Wen Youdao knows the basic principle of being a servant, and the master is most afraid of the slave to be proud of his achievements.
The more meritorious the slave, the more he has to pretend that there is no credit.
Since ancient times, any one master has hated two kinds of subordinates the most: those who have too much merit will not pander to those who are superior.
As long as you violate this principle, the master will gradually dislike and alienate you.
If you don't know this and continue to maintain your original style, the higher the official position and the more favored you are, the more miserable the end will often be.
Ao Bai did not have the heart to rebel, but he thought that he had done great merit, did not put the young emperor in his eyes, and eventually caused a catastrophe.
And Jiao Da's degree of pride is much more exaggerated than Ao Bai's.
Speaking of which, Jiao Da is indeed meritorious: since he was a child, he has performed three or four times with Ning Guogongjia, and he once carried out the dying master from the pile of dead people. With no food to eat, he went hungry to steal something for his master to eat, and when he had no water to drink, he drank horse urine himself and gave the master half a bowl of water to drink.
The credit is great, and Jiao Da's speech is too exaggerated: "Brother Rong, don't make the master in front of Jiao Da. Don't say that you are like this, your father, your grandfather, do not dare to stand up with Jiao Da! If you are not a big person, you will be an official and enjoy the glory and wealth? Your ancestors died nine times and earned this business in their lifetime, and now, instead of repaying my favor, they have become the master with me. If you don't talk to me about anything else, if you say something else, let's go in with the red knife and the white knife comes out! "
Look, even Ao Bai didn't dare to talk like that.
Second, I didn't figure out my position.
No matter how much merit a slave has, he is also a slave.
The master is also the master.
Today we seem completely unreasonable, but this is the society of the Qing Dynasty, and it is a matter of course.
Even if Jia Rong is only a teenager, the good villain is also the master.
Even if Jiao Da was a meritorious servant who followed Jia Rong's grandfather, he absolutely could not disrespect Jia Rong.
Jiao Da not only scolded Jia Rong, but even his father Jia Zhen also scolded: "I want to go to the ancestral hall to cry Grandpa. It is hoped that these animals will be born now!
Scold the master as a beast, count you as cruel.
Third, touch the red line of Ningguo Province.
Every family has some red lines that cannot be touched, and the red lines of Ning GuoFu are fornication and even incest.
For the incest scandal in Ningguo Province, there are actually many people who know about it.
Even Wang Xifeng and the ordinary domestic servants of ningguo mansion knew it, but no one ever dared to break it.
Why?
Incest in the Qing Dynasty was arguably the biggest scandal.
No one dared to say, but Jiao Da shouted in public to break this red line: you steal dogs and play chickens, climb ashes, raise little uncles, what do I not know? We 'folded our arms and hid them in our sleeves'! "When the little people heard him say these unbridled words, the frightened soul flew away, and regardless of anything else, they tied him up and filled his mouth with soil and horse dung.
Even if Jiao Da scolded behind closed doors in the Ningguo Mansion, it was absolutely impossible, let alone shout in front of many guests.
This is tantamount to showing the biggest scandal in the government directly to outsiders.
Qin Keqing's servant, why did one commit suicide and one was willing to guard the spirit for life? They witnessed Qin Keqing and Jia Zhen's incest, and only one of them died and one was abolished. One of them who died was probably killed by Jia Zhen.
This kind of ugly thing can cause human life, and you dare to shout like this.
Fourth, there is no ability.
Jiao Da has such great merits and is very senior, why didn't he hold any important position in NingGuo Mansion?
He's just in charge of picking people up and dropping off people, which is what a fool would do.
The only explanation was that Jiao Da had no ability to do the housekeeping thing.
In fact, it is not easy to be a housekeeper. Even a housekeeper who manages tea is not easy to do his job well.
Jiao Da should just not have the ability.
He was bold, loyal, in good health (a large number of grades can still fool around), and it was most appropriate to follow his master to join the army, and he was a good material for being a soldier.
Unfortunately, the peacetime era is different, and Jiao Da's abilities are meaningless, only reckless and irritable.
Fifth, be loyal to your word.
It is undeniable that some of what Jiao Da said makes sense.
He said that Jia Zhen and their ancestors died nine times and created a family business with great difficulty, but their children and grandchildren did not seek advancement, eat, drink, and even lascivious and shameless, and sooner or later they would cause trouble.
There is nothing wrong with these words, but it is a pity that Jiao Da's words are too direct and too difficult to hear.
Whether it is Jia Zhen, Jia Amnesty, or Jia Zheng, they have long been accustomed to flattery.
People who are accustomed to listening to can't stand it when they suddenly hear the truth.
And Jiao Da's method of speaking was too direct, almost insulting, how could the masters be happy? Must hate him.
And Ning GuoFu is originally a world where people step on people and eat people, and the masters all hate you, can Jiao Da still be good?
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