Fathers play an extremely important role in their daughters' lives. This is important, not only to bring her life, but also because the father is the first male that the daughter comes into contact with, to some extent, what kind of person the father is will affect the daughter's cognition and judgment of men. A qualified father may not necessarily give his daughter food and clothing, but he must be able to set a good example, be his daughter's patron, and give her confidence and security.
Of course, in ancient times, men and women could not be intimate, even if they were fathers and daughters, the relationship was not much closer. What's more, in a large family like Jia Province, the children avoid the mother, the daughter avoids the father, and it seems that the daughter and the father do not have much intersection. This is actually a serious misunderstanding of ancient education, the relationship between father and daughter is harmonious and good, and girls will not live too badly in the future, blindly avoiding, will only give birth to fear and estrangement.
What's more, even if it is not common to meet, the father's behavior will also affect the daughter, and whether the father cares about the daughter can determine the quality of the daughter's life. And the fathers of Jia Fu are not very concerned about their daughters. Xi Chun's father Xiu Xian went, YingChun's father put his arms around his little wife and drank wine all day, Jia Zheng had nothing to say about Tan Chun except to train Baoyu every day.
But the reason why Tanchun is excellent, in addition to being born better than others, and with The cultivation of Lady Wang, Jia Zheng is not completely useless. Jia Zheng is a clear stream among the men in Jia Province, who likes to read and is a decent person, which plays a positive role in the growth of Tanchun. Tanchun is intelligent and upright, loves calligraphy and poetry, and may not be influenced by Jia Zheng.
Even if she is raised in the name of Lady Wang, she can get the attention of Lady Wang, naturally it is naturally because she does not look at the monk's face to see the Buddha's face, and Lady Wang looks down on Aunt Zhao, but she always has to give Jia Zheng face. Teaching Tanchun well is also a gesture of kindness to Jia Zheng, and it can show his generosity even more.
Therefore, Tanchun has such a father, although it is a bit pedantic, it is not very sympathetic, and even the satin shoes that Tanchun made for Baoyu are too luxurious. No one is perfect, and these literati problems of Jia Zheng are really nothing in this deep mansion where people eat people.
It is said that "the eldest brother is like a father", but it is a pity that Chun Shen is ashamed of having an older brother like Jia Zhen. Jia Zhen never cared about his sister, and only cared about turning the entire Ning Guo Mansion over to play. This is also the reason why Jia Mu took Xi Chun to her side to raise. With an older brother like Jia Zhen, Xi Chun can live what kind of life he wants. Even so, although Xi Chun, who was growing up, lived in Rong Guo Mansion, he could not look up because of the scandals in Ning Guo Mansion, and he was eager to sever relations with that side.
Although Yingchun has a father, he is better than Xichun, but he cannot be compared with Tanchun, and he is not even much stronger than Xichun.
The father's love is like a mountain, but Jia Forgiveness this father does not have the appearance of a father at all. Even for his son Jia Lian, he did not have a good face. As long as he didn't go along with his own wishes, a person as big as Jia Lian would have to be beaten by Jia Yu, and for a few fans, he couldn't even get out of bed. Jia Yu is also disrespectful for the old, and also rewards his own woman Qiutong to his son, which is staggering.
If this is still the case for his son, how much can Jia Yu care about Yingchun? Originally, in ancient times, sons were preferred to women.
Jia Yu's biggest hobby is to marry concubines, buy yahuan, and live a life of spending days and drinking, and his lust is famous, not much better than Jia Zhen. Even Jia Mu complained about him, not doing a good job as a good official, not maintaining his body, a small wife on the left, a small wife on the right, and even later he thought of forcibly marrying Jia Mu's confidant Mandarin Duck, after touching the nail, he also spent eight hundred taels of silver to buy a seventeen-year-old woman named Yan Hong.
With such a ridiculous father, how good can Yingchun live?
Jia Yu was busy enjoying himself all day, and naturally couldn't take care of this only daughter. In fact, I don't care, as long as I show my attitude a little, the day of welcoming spring will not be too sad. But Jia Shu didn't have this daughter at all. Yingchun's mother died early, and her temperament was cowardly, Jia Yu didn't care about herself, and even her stepmother Lady Xing didn't bother to pay attention.
Lady Xing has always been the only one who forgives the horse, Jia Amnesty tells her to go east, never to the west, she is the most energetic, is to give Jia Pardon to marry a little wife, only by currying favor with Jia Amnesty, Lady Xing can live a moist life. This Lady Xing was not a good stubble, nor did she have compassion, and she would not do anything without benefit. Jia Shudu was not concerned about Yingchun, a stepmother, naturally happy and leisurely.
Will Madame Wang ignore Tanchun? She won't, the quality is there, the sense of responsibility of being the head of the house is there, and Jia Zheng is there, Aunt Zhao is there, and a group of people are around it. But Lady Xing can ignore Yingchun, why? Jia Shudu should be the air when the spring is well! Brother and sister-in-law Jia Lian and his wife also ignored Yingchun. There is no love in this world for no reason.
As a result, Yingchun, a grand lady, actually lived into a small transparent, a room of slaves, actually oppressed her head. No one supported her, nor did she help her solve the problem, when there was an ugly incident in Yingchun's room, Madame Xing had nothing else to say except to scold Yingchun. At this time, I was not sure that Jia Yu was still drinking with his little wife in his arms.
Dead mother,But the father didn't ask, having a father like Jia Yu was the sadness of Yingchun.
If Jia Yu showed some concern for Yingchun, the people below would not deceive people too much, including Lady Xing and Wang Xifeng, and would not completely ignore Yingchun.
Yingchun is indeed less talented than Tanchun, but the reason why she is cowardly and afraid of things is not also affected by the long-term influence of the environment? Swallowing her breath is also a kind of self-preservation, when Yingchun was young, was there a better way for her to be helpless than this? Maybe she couldn't even see her father's face, and Lady Xing was even more lazy.
Therefore, having a father like Jia Shu is the origin of the tragedy of Yingchun's life, born without maintenance, although there is no worry about food and clothing, Yingchun is like on an isolated island, life, there are slaves to serve, spiritually, but completely ignored, can not be argued, she will not argue, can not ask, she does not seek, at a young age, she will use a "Taishang Induction Chapter" to seek liberation.
But Fan Jia Pardon took out a distraction to Give Yingchun, and Yingchun would not be what it would be later.
This is also counted, there is no love and no care, the father and daughter are like the end of the world. But after Yingchun grew into a pavilion girl, Jia Yu remembered that he still had such a daughter. In the matter of his daughter's marriage, he had to intervene again.
It is true that the marriage of ancient women was the order of their parents and the words of a matchmaker. But Jia Yu found a good family for Yingchun, and he married his daughter to Sun Shaozu, the wolf of Zhongshan, for a price of five thousand taels of silver. In a sense, this is selling a daughter, right? Everyone felt that it was inappropriate, Jia Mu was too lazy to take care of it, although Jia Zheng discouraged it, but the family was the father, and he was also powerless.
Even the uncle knew that he was thinking about his niece's lifelong happiness, but his biological father was good and completely unmoved, even though he knew that Sun Shaozu was not a good person, he still married Yingchun. Poor Yingchun, who has never been loved by his father, but because that person is his father, he has to be buried with a lifetime of happiness, which is really sad.
Such a ridiculous thing, Jia Zhengjue can't do it, even if it is Jia Lian who inherited Jia's forgiveness and flower heart, there are also sharpness in human nature, when listening to Lin Zhixiao, Wang'er's son, who is accustomed to eating wine and gambling money, wants to ask to marry Cai Xia, Jia Lian said that although they are all slaves, in the end it is a lifelong thing, how bitter and wasted a person.
But Jia Pardon is married to his own daughter, the second miss of Jia Fu, everyone thinks it is not a good thing, but Jia Pardon is stubborn, it must be so. As before, whether Yingchun had a good life or not had little to do with him, and the daughter who married out anyway was even more spilled.
Sure enough, after Yingchun married into the Sun family, she was tortured in every way, and when she returned to Jia Province, the way she cried made people cry bitterly. But despite this, Lady Xing was not moved, and Jia Yu was even less responsive. And then the days of Yingchun were even more miserable, knowing that it was a wolf's den, and had to go back and continue to endure inhuman torture. She just wanted to endure, and she didn't have such a long life.
Yingchun hated her bad life, she still did not dare to complain about her parents, so she took all this as a teasing of fate. Soon after Yingchun married into the Sun family, she was abused and died, and I don't know if Jia Yu had a trace of remorse in his heart?
If there is, what is the use? Even if there was, it would soon disappear, and he had never paid attention to this daughter.
Author: Ah Wu, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.