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LeLe is a mother who has a caesarean section at an advanced age, because of her advanced age plus caesarean section, her maternity leave is more than 180 days, so her maternity leave can be taken until the child reaches 6 months.
Before she had been exclusively breastfeeding, the place of work was far from home, she could only express breast milk, and at home, considering that breast milk was not very sufficient, she decided to add complementary food to her child directly after going to work.
Before she went to work, she bought rice noodles and minced meat from the high-speed rail at home, and asked her grandmother to start adding complementary food to her children.
Grandma began to give the child a small amount of complementary food after the mother went to work, each time only about 5 grams of complementary food, but it is this two spoonfuls of complementary food after the child often diarrhea, although not serious, but the number of stools has also increased.
Grandma felt that the child's mental aspects were also fine, not very serious, and her mother just started working and did not want to disturb her mother, so she did not tell her mother.
Because the mother has just gone to work and has more things to do, when she comes back, the child has slept with the grandmother, so it is not clear how the child adds complementary food.
But after a week, the grandmother found that the child not only had diarrhea, but also the amount of milk had become less, so she began to be anxious, and told her mother on the weekend.
The mother took the child to the hospital to see it, and the doctor said that there was no big problem and prescribed some probiotics, so he asked the child what he had eaten recently?
Then the mother said that she ate complementary food, and the complementary food is a big brand of complementary food, and Grandma also pays attention to cleaning her hands when adding it, disinfecting the child's tableware with hot water, which should be a big problem!
And this doctor just happened to have studied child psychology and asked the mother, has there been any change in the child's life during this time? Has there been a change in the custodian?
Mom said that there is no change, before I and grandma together to bring, mainly I brought, now I have to go to work, it is mainly handed over to grandma to bring.
The doctor said that the problem is here, the child has been brought by you before, and now he has not seen you all day, the child will be very anxious inside, this is called separation anxiety.
When the child is separated from anxiety, his emotions are affected, his physiology will also be affected, at this time you add complementary food to the child, the child is prone to maladaptation.
In fact, it is recommended that mothers slowly expose their children to complementary foods before going to work, and it is recommended that mothers should slowly separate from their children before going to work.
For example, the mother goes out for two hours and three hours, slowly pulls a long time, so that the child has a process of adaptation, so that the child's body and mind are not prone to problems.
That is to say, Lele because the child only added complementary food after the child went to work, which led to the child's maladaptation, and if the mother is going to work after childbirth, the child has been enough for 6 months, and the suggestion of adding complementary food is added before the mother goes to work, so that the child is easier to adapt.
After the mother goes to work, the child is prone to separation anxiety, and it is easy to add complementary foods to the child at this time.
Children add complementary foods are exquisite, these few misunderstandings, mothers should avoid
Myth 1: Add complementary foods too early and too late
Children should add complementary foods at least until 4 months later, not later than 8 months, otherwise the child is prone to allergies, or it is difficult to add complementary foods.
When the child first starts to add complementary foods, it is not recommended to be in the morning and evening, because the child's appetite is not very good in the morning, and if the child does not adapt to the addition of complementary foods in the evening, it is easy to affect the child's sleep.
Myth 2: Complementary foods that are too oily and salty
When adding complementary foods, it is not recommended to give children too much animal fat.
For example, fat fat meat, or bone boiled soup, most of the white soup is fat, or fish soup, these fat content are relatively high, not recommended for children to eat.
It is not recommended that parents give their children fried and fried complementary foods, which are mainly steamed.
Children do not need to add salt to food supplements before the age of one, because all kinds of foods will contain pure natural sodium, which can meet the child's need for sodium.
Myth 3: Too many complementary foods
Children add complementary foods from less to more, just add rice paste to the child, that is, the amount of a spoonful, after the child adapts, each meal can give the child to eat 30 to 40 grams.
And the child adds too much complementary food at the beginning, which can easily lead to indigestion of the child.
The child will add complementary foods from 6 months old, and the amount of complementary foods will slowly increase and the amount of milk will be slightly reduced.
In general, when children reach 7 to 8 months, the maximum amount of milk can reach 1000 ml. But by the time the child is 10 months old, the amount of milk will be reduced to 800 ml or even 700 ml.
Because at this time, the amount of complementary food for children has gone up, but it should be noted that our complementary food cannot replace milk.
Therefore, children add complementary foods and avoid the above misunderstandings in order to eat better and grow taller, parents remember it.
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