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Recently, I heard many parents say such a sentence: I listen to everything my children, and now my children can't control it.
Some parents feel that letting children make their own decisions can exercise their independence, make them more confident, let them do their own things, let them learn to think, have their own judgment ability. This is all good habits that are conducive to cultivating children, but do all the decisions have to be made by the children themselves?
A friend recently told me that she came into contact with a lot of parents of art students in the second and third grades of high school, and when asked parents about their children's later planning, parents said: I don't know much about these, I haven't cared about it, we all listen to the child, wait for the child to come back and discuss with him.
In the face of the critical period of examination, parents do not blindly wait for their children to make their own decisions, as parents, to help their children to make the right choice, not to say that it is mandatory, but to give their children a reference.
In the face of the important period of high school sophomore and senior high school, especially the art students choose the training studio, and choosing the wrong studio is a waste of the child's own time. In the training camp in July, some parents have already helped their children plan in March, because they know the importance of this matter and will help themselves compare the studio. There are also some parents who are completely unconcerned about this matter, that is, they let the children get it themselves, which is not for the good of the children! The studio suitable for children is the best, not a studio is suitable for all children, children are busy learning culture classes in school, there is no time to understand the outside studio, some children in order to be with their friends on the wave, and do not plan for whether they can get a test score later.
Some things allow children to make their own decisions can cultivate their autonomy, independence and judgment ability, but some things can not be blindly allowed to be done by children, and parents should help children judge the right and wrong of things, and then give them advice.