There will be many choices in life, not only for parents, but also for children. As parents, we must teach our children to make choices, so that such children cannot be overwhelmed by the choices that follow.
Many people want to enter the acting industry. In this way, making money in the acting industry is too fast. Some, however, are different. Their family backgrounds are prominent, but they volunteer to work in the entertainment industry. Maybe many people can't guess why he did it. Today, let's talk about Feng Jiayi's story among these people. He is a wealthy businessman with assets of more than 100 million yuan. He often followed Zhang Jiayi. He followed Zhang Jiayi. He is very business minded. He succeeded in his 3rd year. His business was good, but maybe his affluent life was a little boring, so he got into the entertainment industry and started another life.
Someone had told him in detail before that he earned more money on running to the scene to drive than acting, but he didn't care about it at all. A man who started from scratch and ended up as a rich man feels that he is a very hard-working person, and there is certainly no problem in being an actor. At first, like everyone else, he started with the dragon running set and accepted more drama through his own efforts. He shoots very hard, so his scenes have always been very wide, and it is convenient to play different roles. He played Chen in "Snail House" and Li Longji in Chang'an for 12 hours. Someone praised his life as a drama, all relying on acting skills? Zhang Jiayi and Feng Jiayi are very close. They have worked together many times. A lot of people think they're together, really appreciate each other, and have fun working together.
Smart parents actually know how to make their children make choices. In fact, life is created by multiple-choice questions. If a person knows how to make the right choice, he is more likely to succeed.
1. Let the child make a choice, let the child be more optimistic and confident.
There are many children in life who must ask for parental consent. Usually, such children are not generous and confident enough because the parents have arranged everything for them and the children just need to obey. After a long time, they became accustomed to relying on their parents. These children usually don't have confidence because a very important part of confidence comes from control, that is, they can decide and choose a lot of things, but if the parents arrange everything for their children, then their children will not be aware of this sense of control, and naturally not very confident. They don't know themselves, they don't know themselves, they don't do things independently.
2. Let the child make a choice, the child will be more responsible.
In life, many parents worry about their children's life and learning, but their children always seem to have nothing to do with themselves. In fact, at this time, parents can give their children choice. From the very beginning, they can tell their children what the consequences they will face, let them decide for themselves, and of course, they should also let their children bear the consequences. At this time, the child will think and eventually make his own choices. Because the outcome of this choice is closely related to him, he will gradually improve his behavior and take responsibility for his own affairs. If parents help their children decide everything, they will take away the obligations and responsibilities that the children should have. Children can only make their own decisions, children will not have to choose their parents after all, they will slowly learn to make the right choice.
3. Let the child choose, the child will be more cooperative.
People like to be willing to do things, not forced to do things. Because the psychological feelings at this time are different, so that parents educate ten thousand times, the benefits give children a good choice. Give the child some necessary direction, and the child will have less oppression, more independence and participation, and will also feel that they are respected, so they will be more willing to cooperate with their parents. This not only avoids the nagging of parents, but also avoids quarrels with children, and it will also be much easier in terms of education. Therefore, if it involves some issues of principle, you should give your family a choice and let them approve of it.
The reason why the judgment question is difficult to write is to consider that there are many factors, but no matter how to choose, there must be a kind of most suitable child's idea, and the family should let the child completely find the most suitable choice and stick to it.