Although the ideological concepts of many young people have undergone great changes today, the word generation still occupies a very important position in everyone's hearts.
Before, on the Internet, there was a little boy who was on fire because of his generational division. At that time, the village was hosting a feast, and all the young and old were happily talking and laughing, but when plate after plate of dishes was served, everyone did not move their chopsticks for a long time, as if waiting for some important person.
There was an old man who looked to be in his 90s, who was very respected in the village and was a highly respected one. But even such a person cannot occupy the C position on the main table, and although many seats are seated, the most important position remains empty.
Just after everyone had been waiting for a long time, suddenly the elder stood up on crutches and walked straight to the front. At this time, a little boy appeared in front of everyone, looking no more than 10 years old, and there was nothing special about it.
But the old man was very respectful to him, and the other people in the village stood up one after another and let him sit down. Because although the child is young, he is a proper big man in the village, and his rank is even higher than that of the elder, and it is inevitable that all the people will wait for him to come before moving chopsticks.
I have to say that this is a village that pays great attention to etiquette, but you can also see the embarrassment of the children in the picture. After all, he was still young, and it was difficult for him to adapt to such a big scene, but he had to sit on the main seat with his scalp.
What should parents do if the child is young but senior?
1. Let children understand the meaning of generations
Nowadays, many children, even some young people, do not know much about generations. In their understanding, the older the family, the higher the natural generational division, although this is the case in theory, but there will be some exceptions in fact.
Therefore, parents want their children to know why they are respected in front of others, which is actually related to the ideas and concepts that have been handed down on the mainland for thousands of years. A person with a high generation, even if he is relatively young, will have a certain position in the family.
2. Teach children the necessary etiquette
Although some children do have a relatively high status, this does not mean that they can go their own way and act willfully. Because aside the factors of generation, we should give the necessary respect when we meet people who are older than ourselves in society.
Therefore, parents should teach their children the necessary etiquette, such as respecting the elderly and loving children, or helping others. These are the fine traditions of the mainland, which should be inherited at any time, especially for children, and should be familiar with mastery, as a polite person.
3. Lead by example
Parents are role models for children, and many times what children do is copy and paste by parents. If the parent's behavior is correct, then the child will naturally take the initiative to imitate, thus forming a series of excellent qualities.
But if parents are not able to set a good example for their children, then there is a good chance that there will be various problems in the children. At this time, it is obviously unfair to simply pass the responsibility on the child, but the parents have to bear the greatest responsibility, because they have not played a good role model.
As a member of the etiquette gang, while not forgetting the generations, we must also strive to become a person with etiquette and politeness, so that we can be recognized and respected by others.