Please do not blindly accommodate those timid children, you may wish to artificially set up some obstacles that make him "afraid", encourage him to charge towards adventure from the side, and let the timid and cowardice have nowhere to hide.
"Mom, I'm afraid of the dark!" I'm afraid of the bad guys!" The little boy tugged at the hem of his mother's clothes and did not dare to stay at home alone at night. Baby,, Mom's not going anywhere. Mom said softly.
Several years have passed, and the little boy who was once a little boy is still afraid of the dark and still dares not be at home alone. Not only that, but he was also afraid of failure and never dared to try anything new.
At this time, the mother began to complain about the child: man, how can it be so timid! Has this mother ever reflected on herself and found the roots of her child's childhood? Many children when they are young, there is a certain timidity, such as not daring to talk to strangers, not daring to be alone at home, afraid of some people, these performances are normal, if parents do not correct his cowardice and timidity in time at this stage, it is likely that he will be timid and cowering when he grows up and encounters things.
In general, introverted children are mostly timid and afraid of the stage. For these children, parents have better encourage their children a lot, and never say things like "you coward", "you useless guy", "you are too cowardly". If the parent does this, it will cause a certain psychological shadow to the child, and he will not dare to challenge his own cowardice and timidity. Jewish parents pay special attention to exercising their children's courage from the small things in life, artificially setting up some obstacles in life scenes, encouraging children to bravely face these "afraid things", and then helping children slowly practice their courage.