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When we are all arguing about having a second child and having a third child, a 39-year-old mother in Taiwan is on the hot search because of 6 children in 10 years.
When brushing the news, I happened to see this news, a variety show from Taiwan "Who Comes to Dinner", the program tells about such a group of families, the hostess's name is Guo Shiwei, is a full-time mother, but also a dowry, the husband in a company as a real estate agent.
The reason why I invited this group of families to do the show is mainly because the couple has had 6 children in ten years, which is a relatively rare situation in this fast-paced era.
Talking about the reason why the couple had so many children, Guo Shiwei said that it was mainly because when she gave birth to the third child, Lao Sa died unexpectedly, and at that time, she felt that the children would cry and make trouble were all the grace of heaven, and we felt that we had more children.
In this way, the couple had three children in succession, although the third was no longer there, and one family did not shy away from it, and still said that there were six brothers and sisters in the family.
Having given birth to so many children, of course, the pressure is there, in order to save money, Guo Shiwei was born at home when she was sixth, and with the help of her husband and a babyminder, Guo Shiwei successfully gave birth to her sixth child.
The audience felt incredible, having so many children, and even felt that the couple's behavior was irresponsible for the children. But Guo Shiwei and his wife said: We are very happy.
Although Guo Shiwei and his wife have many children at home, unlike the "chicken flying dog jumping" in our imagination, the children get along particularly well, modestly and courteously. It seems that the couple is also very concerned about the education of their children, no wonder such a large family of people can still get along so well.
Once upon a time, female children were often "discriminated against" by others.
In this society that pays attention to equality between men and women, women advocate independent self-confidence and are not attached to men, and it seems that those women who have more children are not independent women, and even will be crowned."
Child-giving machine
Such a statement.
There is a friend, the year before gave birth to three children, now the family has three daughters, in fact, the original intention of the friend to give birth to three children is to give birth to a son.
Of course, in the eyes of women in the new era, this kind of thinking of friends is ignorance, that is, the machine of the in-laws who give birth to children.
Once I was chatting with a friend, we talked about having a child, I asked my friend: After giving birth to three girls, do you feel wronged in your in-laws' house?
Friends said: The reason why I am willing to have three children and be willing to have a son is because my mother-in-law and my husband are good to me, I don't have to worry about the birth of the baby after maternity leave, my in-laws help me take the child, my husband will play with the child when he comes home from work, and he will also do housework together, and from my heart, I also want to make a good word.
At that moment, I understood that perhaps some women had to have a second child and a third child because of the pressure of the in-laws, but many women are indeed willing to have more children because of the good relationship between husband and wife.
I remember that when I graduated from college, I interned in a company, and there were several interns who entered the company at the same time, one of whom was a secondary school graduate, who was younger, and when chatting, she always said: How is my eldest sister, how is my second sister, and how is my younger brother.
I couldn't help but ask her: Are the younger brothers and sisters you said kissing? How many children do you have in your family?
The little intern said: My family has 5 children, I am the eldest, because my mother is an only child, she feels particularly lonely, and no one discusses anything, so she wants to have more children.
Their family has five children, three daughters, two sons, and their parents are engaged in a vegetable wholesale business, and their lives are hopeful and delicious.
Everyone has the right to decide their own way of life
Papi sauce is a representative of independent women, always sharing their views in Weibo videos, sometimes one person plays several characters, because the video is interesting and has an attitude and gets the attention of many fans.
However, after papi sauce gave birth to a child, the child followed her husband's surname, which caused dissatisfaction among many fans, and many fans ran over to scold papi sauce:
Aren't you claiming to be an independent woman? Why should your child take her husband's last name?
In the eyes of some women who think a little extremely, independent women should not be attached to men, it is best to let men listen to everything, independent women are what they want to do.
But this is not the case, independent women do not prove themselves through these external things.
Just like in Western countries, women declare independence early, but there is still a surname culture, children also follow their father's surname, and some women will take care of their children at home full-time with their babies.
Those mothers who choose to live full-time with babies are not independent enough, on the contrary, full-time with babies is a more difficult job, a job that needs to be recognized more.
Women who choose to have a second, third, or even fourth child are not all in-laws' baby-give-off machines, because everyone has the right to decide their own lifestyle.
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