Taiwan's mother gave birth to 6 children in 10 years, giving birth to children in the toilet to save money
Annoy your in-laws: Please don't be angry
Some people like the bustling fireworks world
Some people like the cold and deserted paradise
Some people choose a free two-person world
Some people will look forward to the family life of a group of children
No matter what kind of life you live, it is actually human freedom and rights
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I watched such a news not long ago
Guo Shiwei, a 39-year-old stay-at-home mother living in Tamsui, Taiwan, had six children around 10 years after getting married
Some people may say that most of these families are the kind of "Ma Yun" who have a few in the family
However, this mother-in-law's in-laws were miserable about it
He even publicly said, "Don't be born, count me begging you."
The reason is the fear that they will be too burdened with raising their children and will be in debt
And the child's father also joked
"One more, I'll have to change the car to a minibus."
However, despite this, Guo Shiwei still said that she still wanted to have another one
So why is she so confident?
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As the central bone of a small family, Guo Shiwei is not only very assertive
And educating children is also a good hand
The 5 children in the family, under her education, are all very independent and excellent, and even the mother-in-law who opposes her having children has to admit it
"These children, all of whom she educated, and who are well educated"
The eldest daughter, Pan Xin, is 10 years old this year, and not only can play the piano but also won many awards for this
The second daughter, Yue Xun, although young, but her favorite is to do housework, and also learn piano from an early age
I often go to piano practice with my sister, and the two sisters have a very good relationship
The third child left them early though
But for the rest of the family, Pei Xuan has always lived in everyone's heart, so they always say that there are 6 children in the family
The most emotional of several children is the old fourth Muxuan, and she is also very artistic, from a young age like to dance
As the only male treasure in the family, Lao Wuli is not only the palm treasure of his parents,
At the same time, he is also very popular with his grandparents, and his personality is very cute
Someone wants to ask the old six?
Speaking of the production method of the old Six Yi Yu, it is really strange
It is said that in order to save hospitalization costs, Guo Shiwei insisted on giving birth at home
So in January 2021, the old Liu Yihui was born in the bathtub between the toilets at home
Of course, there were also midwives present at the time
But as a comer, I still say that this Taiwanese mother is too hard!
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6 children were born in 10 years, and the children were all well taught
While lamenting the bravery of this precious mother, we can't help but ask her how she did it?
According to reports, this mother not only understands baby care
And the cooking is also superb, in addition to the mathematical English and other subjects are also very proficient
She can cook while tutoring her children with their homework
You can also quickly and firmly mediate for several children when they quarrel into a pot of porridge
And for children, she is never pampered
All children must learn to do housework from the age of one to four
She never worries about her children getting hurt or helping, and she encourages them to do whatever they want to do
There are even housework incentives set up at home to encourage children to take the initiative to do housework to save money
When the children have their own small vaults, Guo Shiwei will take them to shopping
Teach them to distinguish between wants and needs when buying things
In addition, in ordinary life, Guo Shiwei not only attaches great importance to the sense of ceremony
It will also teach children to love and be grateful
For example, when Dad came home from work, he hugged him
Another example is when you have pocket money, you give each other gifts
For herself, Guo Shiwei never treats badly, and whenever she has time, she will go out to party with her girlfriends
Drink coffee, go shopping and enjoy your own quality time
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Of course, in addition to Guo Shiwei's parenting skills
The reason why their family can be so harmonious and happy is inseparable from the understanding and support of the child's father
Although the in-laws objected, the child's father never complained
Instead, he has always supported and protected his wife and children
Guo Shiwei's mother gave birth to a daughter out of wedlock, resulting in Guo Shiwei's ambiguous identity from childhood
You can't enjoy the beauty of family and affection
And her husband did not dislike her because of this, but was very distressed after meeting her
After getting married, the two are more Qinse and Ming, one inside the lord and one outside the lord, cooperating with each other and supporting each other
Husbands not only earn money to support the family, but also help with the children
6 children, from pregnancy to birth, the husband accompanied her all the way and cared about her every day
It is also this deep affection and love of her husband that gives Guo Shiwei unlimited courage
Although they have been married for 10 years now, the two still often show affection and good feelings envy others
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We've said a thousand times about the impact of the family of origin
For Guo Shiwei, the reason why she is addicted to having a baby may be because of the misfortune of childhood and the lack of family affection
As a result, deep down she has always hoped to be able to make up for it
So she gave birth to children one by one and gave them the greatest love and companionship
At the same time, it is also compensating for the unfortunate self when I was a child
And what is touching is that although the biological parents are not very good
But when Guo Shiwei was growing up, she met two other women
They gave her love and warmth, and they taught her independence and strength
One is her nanny, who has been responsible for her care since she was born, and it can be said that the two are not mother and daughter but are more like mother and daughter
She likes to eat chicken loin, and the nanny gets up early every day to make it for her
She and her mother quarreled and had nowhere to go, and the nanny asked her eldest daughter to pick her up
She went to college without tuition, and she was also the nanny's daughter and son-in-law who helped her pay for it
Although there is no blood relationship, it is this family that gives her love and affection
It is precisely because of this that after the birth of the children, she insisted on bringing her own, because she knew that Yang En would always be older than Sheng En
The other was her mother-in-law
Although mother-in-law and father-in-law often object to their having children again
But the two old men have always loved Guo Shiwei
Less than 40 days after Guo Shiwei gave birth to the third eldest, the child died unexpectedly and prematurely
This is a big blow to her
After the father-in-law and mother-in-law knew, they immediately comforted her and said, It is not your fault
Especially the mother-in-law, who has been holding her to comfort her, and personally took care of her for a long time
Although she was a daughter-in-law, they obviously regarded her as a daughter
Now Guo Shiwei's sixth child is more than one year old
It is said that the two also intend to have another one
And after the family experienced the loss, they were also more harmonious and beautiful, not only the husband and wife had a good relationship, but the children also grew up well
Although there is financial pressure, this happiness and joy with family is also irreplaceable by money
For Guo Shiwei, in the process of educating children
She also gradually forgave her mother, and her relationship with her became more and more relaxed
Because life is not easy, it is even more difficult to be a mother
We also believe that in the days to come, this family will definitely get better and better, bless them!
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