At eight o'clock this morning, I came to the door of the custodial campus, was about to open the door, and was attracted by the bustle across the road, and at first glance there was a crowd of people.
Through the crowd, I saw a mother and son inside - this is not Lele and his mother who came to our campus to enroll their children in the custody class two days ago!
I remember this little guy was in the first grade this year, before it was always the mother who was taking care of it, this year the mother watched the child's learning after half a semester has been stable, she plans to return to the workplace, so give the child a custody class, let us start to pick up and drop off from next month. In the impression, Lele is a child who loves to laugh.
Today was the second time I saw the little boy, sitting on the side of the road crying and yelling at his mother that he didn't want to go to school. I looked at the time, an hour had passed since the class time, and I thought that the little guy had been crying for a while, and his voice was already a little hoarse.
The child is lying on the ground, always saying that he does not want to go to school and does not want to go to school, and the mother who stands on the side just coldly asks the child" "Can you walk in the end"?
Mother and son were so deadlocked.
"Mother Lele, what's wrong?" After communicating with Lele's mother, I saw that it was not a way to be so stiff, "Or you will sit in the custody class with your child first, and we will communicate with your child well." After she calmed down a little, she knew that this would not solve the problem, so she accepted my suggestion.
The children who saw the crowd disperse silently sobbed on the ground and stopped shouting.
So I communicated with the child alone, "Lele has always been a punctual child, Teacher Chen knows that you don't want to go to school today, there must be a reason, but you can't solve the problem sitting here now, the teacher wants to help you solve the problem together?" Don't refuse to accept me when you promised oh! "I pulled the child to get up and walked toward the school district, and the child did not reject it.
It turned out that there were guests at home on the weekend, and the family was busy and happy, and when they remembered their homework, it was already after dinner on the weekend. It was late to finish my homework, so I didn't sleep well.
Adequate sleep can ensure a good learning state and is the key to improving learning efficiency. In a state of fatigue, no matter how hard you study, it is just a waste of time, and it is just useless work.
Later, the mother agreed to let Lele sleep in the lunch break room of the nursery for a while, and then send the child to school when the child was well slept
school.
Therefore, when a child says "I don't want to go to school", it is not really tired of school, it may also be a lack of sleep! There are many cases like Lele, we need to understand the reasons and the real thoughts of the child, and help the child to solve the problem, do not blindly bad by the emotions control.
Poor work and rest habits, lack of sleep will bring about a series of chain reactions such as "boredom", "not serious study", "not good listening", etc., over time, it will only get worse and worse. So, it makes me feel even more that helping children develop good habits is really crucial.