And a lot of friends who are parents chat, everyone has a lot in common, although each family's baby is different, and everyone's education method is not the same, but many times when the child does the wrong thing, the parents' solution is basically the same, basically 90% of the parents have yelled at their own children, many of them are very sorry for their own behavior, but regret regret, the next time the same thing happens, parents still can't restrain their temper.
Often yelled at by the mother, the child also learned to yell
Xiao Ai is five years old this year, has been in kindergarten for a year, but this year Xiao Ai's kindergarten life is particularly unhappy, the teacher found that no one in the class is willing to talk to Xiao Ai, do games are not willing to talk to Xiao Ai, the teacher found such a phenomenon, he called the most sensible child in the class to ask, the child said that the reason why he was unwilling to play with Xiao Ai was because Xiao Ai often shouted at the children, the teacher immediately understood what was going on, so he called Xiao Ai's mother, Xiao Ai's mother said that she usually likes to yell at her children very much, thinking that she feels that her children are not afraid at all, and she feels that there is nothing, and she did not expect that her children would learn from themselves.
Children who are often yelled at by their parents will have these obvious characteristics in their personality
1. Timid and fearful, weak character
There are many parents who say that the reason why they will regret doing so after yelling is because the child feels cringe after being yelled at, if the parents roar very suddenly, the child is also easy to be frightened, especially the younger children, it is easier to make the character weak because of the parents' behavior.
2. Hot-tempered and rebellious personality
Not all children who have been yelled at by their parents will become particularly timid, there are special situations, because every time they are yelled at by their parents, they basically do something wrong with their children or have conflicts with their parents, the way parents solve problems, sometimes children will learn, children will think that this is a common and effective way to solve problems, children will learn from their parents, some children are yelled at by their parents, the more they roar, the more they don't listen, and even yell at their parents, so that the child's temper will become more and more fiery. Personality can also become particularly rebellious.
3. Self-doubt, low self-esteem
Many times parents yell at their children because the child has done something wrong or can not meet their own requirements, especially the latter, such a move for the child is very hurtful to self-esteem, many people think that the child is still young, do not understand what, in fact, it is not so, if the child is more than three years old, this time the child has slowly formed their own personality, the parent's practice will make the child feel that he is really so bad, slowly become very inferior.