On March 5th, the sixth lecture of "Haidian Parents' School Family Education Lecture Hall" was broadcast, which was delivered by "Judge Mother" Shang Xiuyun, and the theme of the lecture was "Correctly Performing Parental Duties and Protecting the Healthy Growth of Children".
Shang Xiuyun analyzed what are the responsibilities of parents and how to correctly perform their parents' duties from the aspects of common misunderstandings in parents' upbringing and education of children in life, educating children to learn to be human, improving children's psychological quality, and abiding by the law to start from the cultivation of good conduct.
What are the misunderstandings in family education? In the process of family education, what aspects of children's cultivation need to be paid attention to? How to nourish children's hearts and make them feel the warmth of home? How can I avoid my child getting lost? Shang Xiuyun started from these problems, and through vivid case stories, analyzed that the lack of love in children's growth is often an important reason for their various problems. Therefore, as a parent, you need to meet your child's need for love, understand the challenges and tasks faced by children at different ages, and then choose the appropriate way for your child to feel the deep and broad love of your parents. In family education, parents can only express love if they correctly perform their duties, protect the healthy growth of their children, let their children feel love, and understand love, and can they create a family and society full of love.
Shang Xiuyun combined the real cases in the work and the summary of years of work experience, analyzed the child's growth law, the important reasons that led to the child's sins, the important content of family education, etc., and told the adults who are parents that only by understanding, respecting and trusting their children can they be good and self-assured.
Finally, through the real case of juvenile delinquency, Shang Xiuyun analyzed the various difficulties that children will encounter in the process of growing up. She stressed that at this time, the influence of parents on children is very important, and it is necessary to spend more time with children, to care for children and help in a timely manner, which is crucial for the formation of children's personality.
Moderator Dr. Lu Caixia, Haidian Academy of Educational Sciences
Haidian District Parents The series of lectures in the school family education lecture hall is designed to provide support for family education, help parents better educate and cultivate their children, deepen the regional series of parent training activities, form a three-level linkage family education guidance service network of "district-school-school", and build a new model of regional home-school community collaborative education.
According to the data of Haidian Parent School Broadcast platform, as of 16:00 on March 7, the number of people studying this course has reached nearly 80,000.
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Through the special lecture on "Correctly Fulfilling Parental Duties and Protecting the Healthy Growth of Children", Haidian parents wrote down their experiences:
Thank you Teacher Shang for your wonderful lectures. Accompany the child all the way over, found that the child's eyes are like a never-ending radar watching me, paying attention to what the parents say and do, and then forming their own habits and hobbies, so the parents themselves are the best teachers on the road to the child's growth.
I see a lot of proud children, and I see a lot of cases of failed homeschooling. I often wonder, what are the responsibilities of parents? Knowledge is instilled in all kinds of classrooms in schools, and as a parent, I feel that the first thing is to cultivate the child's "feelings of home and country", to help her become a real person with the purest, sharpest, and noblest feelings; and then to be virtuous and law-abiding, self-respecting and self-loving, and loving people, and to have the bottom line of behavior. Have a good body and mind, have healthy preferences, and cherish life. Educating children is a too deep learning, and I hope that I will continue to grow up, become a better mother, and become a better teacher on the road of children's growth.
——Yuying School, zhao yunzhi's parent
By watching Judge Shang Xiuyun's special lecture on "Correctly Fulfilling Parental Duties and Protecting the Healthy Growth of Children", I was deeply educated and inspired, and also caused me to reflect, what is a good family education? First, we must correctly understand the relationship between love and coddling, material and spiritual, moral and intellectual education, personality and knowledge, and fish and fish. The second is to cultivate children into individuals who are independent and resistant, brave to take responsibility, dare to fight, sunny and confident, and self-disciplined.
——May Day Primary School, parent of Jiang Mingze
This Haidian home-school education lecture course expounded the importance of family education with vivid growth cases. Family education is a complex engineering system, and the way of education is more diversified with the development of the times.
In this course, from the perspective of moral education, parents are given many warning points. As far as my personal feelings are concerned, moral education for children, first of all, parents should not be condescending, but should be carried out in a democratic and equal atmosphere; they must know how to proceed step by step, not overnight; pay attention to the physical growth of children, but also pay attention to the psychological feelings, be the child's trusted spiritual partner, and not be the child's obedient nanny. Especially when children encounter confusion, setbacks and mistakes, communicate with children in time, give correct guidance, and adjust the child's mentality. At the same time, in daily life, starting from the people and things around them, we subtly educate children on their outlook on life and values, so that children can establish lofty ideals from an early age, thus arousing endless motivation in the depths of the soul.
Thanks to the organization of this course activity, parents are guided to carry out more self-reflection and understand the importance of family education to bring their children to growth.
——Peiying Primary School wishes good parents
After listening to Judge Shang's lecture, I deeply felt that as a parent and legal guardian, the responsibility and obligation on my body cannot only raise children in material terms, but also pay more attention to the raising of healthy psychology, and we must bring children according to law, so that children can be physically and mentally healthy and grow up happily. Thanks to the wonderful lectures organized by Haidian Parent School, I benefited a lot!
——Beilin Attached To Ma Yishan's parents