During the weekend break, I originally helped my mother to go shopping with my girlfriend, but my girlfriend's daughter Sissi had no one to take care of, so my girlfriend brought her child to the appointment.
At first, the child was very happy and jumped in front of himself, but when he entered the mall, Sissi suddenly asked for a hug.
Girlfriends feel that the children are so old can go by themselves, the children are now very heavy on their own holding will be very tired, just discuss with the child to go back to hug, Sissi is not happy, crying to hug, girlfriend is very angry.
When he reached for the child, he was blocked by his girlfriend. After the mother told the girlfriend about the previous conversation with the pediatrician, the girlfriend immediately picked up the child.
The need for a walking child to "cuddle" is a very common but not simple problem.
1. Tired of walking. For children, the development of body organs and bones is not yet complete, and practicing walking is a particularly physically demanding thing.
2, lack of security. Her girlfriend's daughter, Sissi, began to cry as soon as she entered the mall, in part because of the strangeness and fear of the mall environment.
3. Bo attention. In fact, many children ask their parents for hugs in order to prove their existence, attract their parents' attention and care, and meet their emotional needs.
Tell Mom and Dad a little secret that regular hugs between family members and friends will enhance each other's feelings. Children are easily insecure, psychologically immature, and more sensitive to things.
For example, in the two-child family, the child's competition for favors occurs frequently, and even many parents will joke to the child that the parents want to divorce, so that the child chooses the father or the mother, which is very detrimental to the child's mental health.
Therefore, parents should often accompany their children and give their children more positive encouragement, after all, love is to express it, so that it is good for themselves and their children.