People often say that the college entrance examination is the simplest chance for ordinary people to change their fate, and it is also the fairest opportunity. If you graduate from college and find a decent job, the road ahead will be much smoother, and if you give up studying halfway, your life will be miserable later.
Therefore, our parents taught us to study hard from an early age, and we would rather study hard for more than ten years than work hard to farm for a lifetime. Unfortunately, most people do not understand this truth when they are young, nor do they listen to the teachings of their parents.
For example, this boy in the fourth grade of primary school, he did not want to go to school because he could not stand the pain of reading, his father directly sent him to the construction site to experience life.
So, did the child's thinking change after going to the construction site? Will he study hard in the future? Can the child understand the true intentions of the father?
Looking back on the incident, the boy did not want to go to school, was taken by his father to the construction site to dig a ditch, and then collapsed and cried: I want to read
The boy's father is an ordinary worker, he comes out early and returns late every day just so that his wife and son can live a good life, even if he works hard, he feels that it does not matter.
Dad puts his hopes on his son, he does not want his son to be like himself, he does not necessarily let the child become a dragon into a phoenix, but hopes that the child is no longer as hard as him, and can have a decent job when he grows up.
However, the son did not understand his father's intentions, he hated to read, and even thought that going to school imprisoned his freedom, he wanted to go out to play, he wanted to escape the school classroom forever.
On this day, the child spoke his mind to his father, who acted very calmly and agreed to his request not to go to school. The child was very happy, he felt that he finally did not have to go to school, but then the father said to him: "If you don't go to school, then you have to go to work." ”
The child naively thought that there was no place in the world that could be more bitter than the classroom, so he happily agreed.
The father took the child to a construction site, threw him a hoe, and told him, it, your job is to dig all the trenches. ”
The child thought that this was not difficult, but when he picked up the hoe, he knew that the hoe was so heavy, and after a few strokes of the hoe, the child was breathless and could not move, and the father came to him and told him: "Can't stop, keep doing!" ”
The son could only continue to work, and after about an hour, the child cried and said, "Daddy, I want to study." ”
Dad retorted, "What book do you read?" Do not read. ”
The child broke down and cried, "I want to read." ”
If the father does not let the son understand the importance of reading at this time, then it will be too late for him to understand it later, and the father also said that this trick is more effective than beating him.
Netizens saw this scene and praised the father, some netizens said: "Child, your father is also for your own good, so he made this decision, you have experienced it will understand how tired your parents' work is, in order to earn money for you, your parents are worth it, they only hope that you can study well and live easier when you grow up." ”
Editor's opinion
The college entrance examination is indeed the best opportunity for us ordinary people to change their destiny, and many rural children have entered the big city through the college entrance examination and changed their destiny.
This father is indeed well-intentioned, and only when he lets his children truly experience the difficulties of life will he truly understand the importance of learning.
I believe that after experiencing this incident, this child will be able to deeply understand that his parents' work is harder than reading, and he will definitely go to school well.
It is the nature of children to love to play, but while having fun, you must not forget to learn. Parents should find ways to let their children know the importance of learning, so that children understand that they can't eat the pain of learning now, and they will have to work hard for a lifetime in the future.
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