Running away is never the best way to solve the problem.
If this time use the method of escape to solve, then the child will also imitate it, and any problems encountered in the future will be solved by escape.
Moreover, the image of parents in the hearts of children will also decline.
Just think: you go to your parents with a look of grievance to complain that you have been bullied, and the final result is that you transfer schools yourself. As a child, no matter how much effort the parents have made in the middle of this incident, they will only feel that their parents are unreliable, and they will not ask for help from their parents in the future.
First of all, parents should go to each other's parents again, and their attitude is more serious and angry than all the times before. Tell the other parent about the seriousness of the incident, let them pay attention to it, and hope that the child will apologize in person, not between parents.
Tough up, at this moment you are not just parents, but children's shields!
Secondly, communicate with the kindergarten teacher and hope that the teacher will pay more attention to the two of them. Don't sit next to each other, and try not to get together when playing.
Finally, and most importantly, teach children how to protect themselves!
My cousin was 100 days younger than me, and when I was a child, I always liked to grab my snacks, and my parents sometimes didn't notice me when they played mahjong, and when they heard me crying, the snacks had been eaten by my brother.
At the beginning of coming home, my mother would teach me that you should take good care of your snacks, he would rob you and run, how to stand silly and be robbed. As a result, at the end of the week, this method did not work, because I could not run him. I tried to run but was still snatched away, causing me to cry even more aggrieved.
Later, my mother and my aunt angrily sued, and my aunt just thought the boy was naughty.
So my dad came home every day and practiced wrestling in bed with me, and I was a fat girl since I was a kid, stupid but still a little bit strong. From then on, as long as he touched my snack, I would directly knock him down and sit on him, he could not get up, he could only cry, never dared to rob me again.
Today's society may not be as violent as I was then, but there are many ways to protect yourself. You can let the child run away, you can let the child go to the teacher immediately, you can let the child push him away directly, and so on.
In short, children's self-protection ability is something that will be learned one day!
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
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