Recently, a bear child in Loudi, Hunan Province, threw dumbbells downstairs, smashed the coffee table, and then a sentence made the video of her mother "running away" popular on the Internet, which caused heated discussion and attention among netizens. The thing is this, after the child's mother Xiaoping got married, she was busy with her husband's business, every day she came out early and returned late, after the marriage, the eldest daughter was born, it was the mother-in-law and grandmother who took turns to help bring it every day, the mother rarely went home, that is, it was very late to go home, and the children were already asleep. The eldest daughter's lack of mother and father's company led to a decline in academic performance, and every time the teacher would call Xiaoping, Xiaoping realized the seriousness of the matter. Therefore, I consulted with my husband to watch the children at home and accompany the children more in the future. The husband quickly agreed, Xiaoping at home to see the child soon found out that she was pregnant again, under the persuasion of the family, in October, while taking care of the eldest daughter, while doing housework, just like this day and day, until the second born.
The second brother has always been Brought by Xiaoping himself from the landing to the present, he feels the happiness of taking the child, coupled with the change of personality in age, he loves the second brother in every way. After sending her sister to school every day, Xiaoping played with the child every moment, and when the child cried, she said, come to beat the mother, the mother is not right, take the child to the supermarket at noon, the child wants the beloved toy, all of which are unconditionally satisfied. This night, Xiaoping in the bedroom to tutor his sister to study, the younger brother has been making a fuss about his mother to take him to the square to play basketball, the mother said, the child wait a little, the sister homework has not been written, wait for the writing let's go together okay? The younger brother disagreed, and then went to his mother's bedroom to pick up the dumbbell and threw it down from the second floor, only to hear a "bang", and In the bedroom, Xiaoping and his sister were trembling with fright, and their legs were straight and weak. I hurriedly opened the door and looked out to see what was happening. At first glance, it turned out that the younger brother was angry and threw the dumbbell down from the second floor, and the coffee table on the first floor smashed with fragments. When Xiaoping saw this scene, he immediately became angry, and usually rarely trained children, but this time he was angry. After the lesson, the younger brother was very aggrieved, crying and saying that he wanted to sell his mother. Xiao Ping listened to the child's words, instantly collapsed, the grievances in his heart immediately poured out, thinking how much he had to worry about for this family, he trained the child, but the child did not realize his mistake at all, and he had to sell it to himself. The more Xiao Ping wanted to get angrier, he took the child to open the "violent walk" mode, so that the child could also experience the process of experience and teach his brother a lesson.
After this video was sent, netizens were commenting one after another, one of them said, it is really lucky, did not hurt people, if you hit people, it is not sold, it is to burn. Another netizen said that the destructive power of the bear child is not impossible, only the unthinkable! Another netizen said that he was wrong and should have sold himself. After all, his mother did not sell him in this matter, which was already the greatest kindness to him.
I have to say that in our Chinese education, parents like to do everything to raise, when the child is young, he is afraid of bumping and touching, and he worries about eating enough at school every day after going to school. Teacher criticism no? Over time, to develop a sense of dependence for children, there is no real idea of their own, but every time, the requirements of the intensification of the times, if not satisfied once is to give adults a different fright. Educating children is a homework, parents, everyone loves children, but everything must be measured. What do you think about this?