Children are the property that parents attach the most importance to, parents exhaust everything, just so that children can grow up healthily, if they can become a bully, parents are naturally happy to see it.
In many moments of a child's growth, parents are very communicative.
Especially when the child brings their "other half of their identification" to the front, most parents are unacceptable, which is not necessarily dissatisfied with the other party, but more is not unable to accept the fact that the child has grown up, and cannot accept that they have a partner.
A few days ago, David Beckham's second son Romeo posted a photo on the Internet, which triggered the amazement of many netizens: the scale is really too big.
Many netizens silently said that if this is in China, they are estimated to be hammered to death by "parents".
The two in the photo are very close, snuggling up next to Romeo in a cool mia, with one leg on the boyfriend's body, and the good figure is clearly visible.
When many netizens think that this is definitely an eye-catching picture, there are also many netizens whose ideas penetrate into the education of children.
Compared with foreign open education, domestic parents are more introverted in the expression of emotions, especially when there are adolescent children in the family, parents do not dare to show love in front of their children, and the child's love and sweet pictures do not dare to be seen by parents.
In fact, the establishment of the child's emotional concept should start from an early age, only in this way will the feelings not become a burden on the child's growth and talent.
【Children's emotional views, how parents help children establish】
1. For boys: Church responsibility and responsibility
In the process of shaping the child's emotional outlook, a special program should be formulated according to gender.
The parents of the boys in the family should let them understand that feelings are not child's plays, nor can they change at any time.
Feelings are sacred, and as a boy, it is okay to accept and open a relationship.
But whatever the future holds and what the outcome is? You must have the courage to take responsibility, which is what you should have as a boy.
When boys understand the responsibility and responsibility of adolescent feelings, whether it is early love or crush, I believe that they will be more cautious in the process of choice.
Their inner world will also be more mature, and it will also have an important role and significance for boys in the establishment of emotional concepts.
2, for girls: to teach self-respect and the bottom line
When there are girls in the family, parents should maintain a more cautious and cautious attitude in shaping the emotional view.
Compared to the big grinning personality of boys, adolescent girls are very sensitive.
The atmosphere of the family, the attitude of the family, the pressure of learning, the good feelings of others, the curiosity of the opposite sex...
These issues can have a significant impact on them.
However, no matter what, in the shaping of girls' emotional views, as parents, we must make them understand that only by respecting themselves can they be respected by others.
The feelings of adolescence are certainly beautiful, but the road ahead is still very long.
Many of the choices of youth may be regretted in the future, and will also stifle a more exciting future.
At the same time, parents should create a stable, warm and inclusive family environment as much as possible, so that more of the girl's mind can be placed.
3, emotions, is the product of a specific stage
Whether it is a boy or a girl, in the process of their growth, the shaping of the emotional concept cannot be ignored.
Although Chinese parents are very subtle in their expression of emotions, the shortcomings that exist cannot be ignored.
Only by helping children establish a correct view of emotions can they better enjoy their youth life and not pay a painful price because they make wrong choices.
If the parents' education is not in place, it affects the establishment and shaping of the child's emotional concept, which is the biggest dereliction of duty of the parents.
4, the atmosphere of the family, is very critical
In the process of shaping the child's emotional concept, it is necessary for parents to understand that a stable and harmonious family relationship is the nourishment for the growth of the child.
Most children who have problems with the emotional aspects of adolescence have problems with their families to a greater or lesser extent.
Therefore, parents try not to argue in front of their children, which is the most basic.
To maintain a greater degree of tolerance for children, try to enter the inner world of children, understand the various contradictions in their growth, and have great positive significance for shaping their emotional views.
【Author's Message】
Tagore once said that stillness is death, and only movement can knock on the door of eternal life.
Many parents sighed: children are becoming more and more disobedient and more and more difficult to manage.
There are definitely not a few parents who have such thoughts and confusion.
The more adolescent children are, the more obvious the manifestations of rebellion, early love, crush, abound.
Parents do not dare to ignore, do not dare to manage too fiercely, afraid that children have more rebellious behavior, compared with foreign open education, the above points are Chinese parents in the process of shaping their children's emotional concept should pay more attention to the problem.
As long as children have the above abilities, they can not only make them survive the sensitive adolescence stably, deal with various emotional problems, but also make their future life more competitive.
Today's topic sharing: Do you think: In the process of children's growth, in addition to grades and health, how should the emotional concept be established? Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences below.