In life, many elderly people are saying that if children are not easy to carry when they are young, they will definitely be very smart when they grow up. In fact, at first I thought that there was no scientific basis for this sentence, but later I found that this sentence has some truth.
Now many parents are reluctant to let their children suffer a little, and big things and small things are done well for their children to meet all the needs of their children. Slowly, the child becomes pampered and selfish. If one thing can't be met, they start crying and making a lot of noise, without any rules
On the contrary, some children are very obedient when they are young and resign themselves to what their parents say. We all like this kind of obedient child, but you will find that being too obedient will not help the child's growth, but will weaken the child's self-confidence.
Parenting experts say that the smarter the child, the more difficult it is to carry, if your child has the following three "annoying" performances, parents will steal the fun! Eighty percent of children will be smart when they grow up.
01 Likes to tear things down
When children are three years old, their sense of self gradually awakens. At this time, the child will have destructive behavior, mainly manifested in the fact that all the toys are dismantled in his hands, and even many toys "live" but the next day.
At first, we may think that the child is deliberately causing trouble, but in fact this is not the case. Children who love destruction develop very well, because in the process of destruction, their hands-on ability and brain coordination will be developed. Because the child is super curious about something, he can't control his hand and wants to take it apart.
In the face of this situation, parents must not blindly stop, because your suppression may kill a little genius.
02 Love to talk back
Parents like obedient children. If the child resists, we all think that he is challenging his authority and even starts yelling at the child, but many parents may be mistaken.
You will find that children sometimes resist not without reason, they just want to refute and express their own opinions. If you let your child continue, he will always be able to make a case for himself.
If your child is like this, it means that he is very independent, logical thinking ability and expression ability are excellent, so don't always think that the child loves to talk back is disobedient, we have to observe the situation clearly, and then guide the child correctly.
03 Talk
After the child is 2 years old, he enters the golden period of language development. A child who does not speak very fluently will suddenly become a talker, chasing his parents every day to ask all kinds of strange questions.
In the face of this situation, parents should not perfunctory or refuse to answer their children, because children's like to talk is the main expression of their inner curiosity.
We must answer in a timely manner to guide the child to find the right answer. Such children's language logic ability, communication ability, and expression ability are very good. If you can cultivate them well, I believe that he will be able to work in the future of journalists, speakers and other industries.
Harvard study: The peak of brain development is only once in a lifetime
If parents want to improve their children's IQ, they must seize the golden age of brain development. Psychologists at Harvard have found that the peak of brain development is only once in a lifetime, and the fastest time for brain development is before the child is 6 years old.
At this stage, the child's brain develops very quickly, and external stimuli can connect the nerve nodes of the cell. Parents should stimulate their children's brain cells from the aspects of touch, taste, vision, and hearing.
Parents can develop their children's brains through puzzle games such as stubble finding, continuous looking, and classification calculation.
To this end, Xiaobian deliberately found an omnipotent scientific thinking book "Crazy Brain Thinking Training Camp • Young Children Connect whole brain development 400 questions", this set of books can systematically improve children's memory, mathematics, language expression, logic, visual space and creativity of the six major abilities, and fully develop the child's brain potential.
Why recommend this set of books to everyone?
10 theme scenarios + 30 question types
The 10 books of "Crazy Brain Thinking Training Camp" correspond to 10 theme scenes that children like and are close to life, so that children can interact with the world and develop in simulation games.
In addition, the knowledge integrated into these thinking training games involves life, machinery, world-renowned buildings, animals and plants and many other common sense, which is particularly interesting and can be comparable to children's science books.
Focus on thinking training + ability training.
The title design in the book is not directly instilled in knowledge points, but mainly based on thinking training and ability training, a set of down, exercise concentration, observation, logic, sense of space, mathematical power, imagination and other 12 major abilities, exercise the left and right brains.
The difficulty is gradual + the questions are rich and varied.
In the arrangement of this set of books, the difficulty of each question is distinguished by star rating - so for children who are younger before the age of 4, you can choose to start with a low star rating, take your time, don't worry, fun is the greatest meaning and motivation.
Although the recommended age is 3-7 years old, but about 10 years old children can also play, a lot of investigation of basic knowledge, calculation, literature and other content, and primary school knowledge is very closely linked, rich and diverse topics, very test the ability of children.
These exercises and games take "cultivating children's logic in all aspects" as the core concept, focusing on the training of children's comprehensive thinking ability, covering a wide range, rich and interesting. Children spend about 30 minutes a day practicing, and the young articulation is easy.
Referring to the famous child psychologist and the founder of cognitive development theory, the originator of contemporary cognitive constructivism, Piaget's theoretical system was written and approved by Bai Xue, an expert in child development psychology of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, following the proposition of the characteristics of brain development in children aged 3-7 years.
In primary school mathematics learning, there are many similar application problems, and if you master the flexible use of the method of example, it is much easier for the baby to learn again.