Man may be born like an ant and as beautiful as a god. From the moment he came into the world, everyone is an independent and complete individual, so he should do his best to live, to play his personal value, and to find his own place in the world.
In 1986, Pan Jie was born in a small county town in Xiangtan, Hunan. His father, Pan Mou, is a teacher at a key middle school in the county, and his mother also holds an important position in the factory. Pan Jie has no material troubles since he was a child, plus he is the only child in the family, and his parents are particularly fond of him, never letting him do any housework, and providing him with good food and drink all day.
Since elementary school, Panjie's grades have been very good. Even if he does not spend much time on learning, he can still easily sit in the top three of the class, and the teacher praises them every time he sees Pan Jie's parents, they are really smart and talented, and as long as they do not take a detour in the future, it is easy to enter a key university.
Pan Jie's academic achievements made his parents very proud, and for this reason, his parents became more and more fond of Pan Jie, and this pampering even reached the point of coddling. Once, Pan Jie told his parents that he wanted to go to the amusement park in the city, but there was no vacation, and asked if he could help him lie to the teacher and ask for sick leave.
Faced with such an unreasonable request from Pan Jie, his parents did not hesitate to agree. In addition, his mother had taken a few hours of car for him to buy cakes at a well-known cake brand store. It can be said that in daily life, all the requests made by Pan Jie are accepted by his parents.
Growing up in such a family environment, Pan Jie slowly developed a sense of "solipsism", he believes that he is not only born tall, academic performance is good, in addition, more importantly, he believes that his IQ is far beyond ordinary people, and this also proves that he is a proud son of heaven and should be admired by everyone around him.
We often wish life all the best, but is it also a mistake to have an overly smooth life like Pan Jie's? High school is the most important period of learning, and it is reasonable to say that in this three-year period, Pan Jie should try his best to sprint and get into a prestigious school. However, he stumbled during this period and could no longer get up.
Led by his classmates, Pan Jie became obsessed with online games. Ever since he played two games on a weekend after school, his mind had begun to obsess over the game, and he was always thinking about the game in class, hoping that time would suddenly fast forward to the weekend so that he could continue to fight and kill in the game world.
Slowly, Pan jie began to skip class, and even fled, for a whole week. After the class teacher informed his parents, Panjie's father beat him up hard. This made Pan Jie, who grew up spoiled and raised, how to endure. In order to get revenge on his parents, he began to abandon his studies and devote himself to the game.
I believe that the story of Wounded Zhongyong is very familiar to everyone, and anyone with extremely high talent will slowly degenerate into a mediocre person once they lack the learning of the day after tomorrow. Pan Jie is also like this, although he is very smart, good foundation, but the whole three years of high school he almost spent in the mud, so after the final college entrance examination results came out, he did not even pass the undergraduate line.
In desperation, his parents had to send him to a college. In the past few years of college, Pan Jie still did not learn any techniques and indulged in online games. After graduation, he simply shut himself in his bedroom all day to play games, and even his parents could not push the door in, otherwise Panjie would do something to the two of them. Only when he was so hungry that he would open the door and find something to eat.
One day, Pan Jie's mother couldn't stand it anymore, so she secretly unpluged the network cable in the house. Who knows, this incident completely angered Pan Jie, he pushed his mother to the ground, punched and kicked her, and finally his mother was admitted to the hospital because of this fracture.
Seeing that Pan Jie was not the way to go down day by day, so his parents thought of letting him start a family early, after all, as long as people have pressure, even if they don't want to act, they will be forced by life to act. But his parents ignored the fact that what girl like Pan Jie, a boy who did not want to make progress and achieve nothing, would want to follow him?
Even if the college entrance examination has been completely defeated, but Pan Jie's previous self-esteem and arrogance mentality has not changed at all, he believes that the girls who come to the blind date are all not worthy of themselves, they are the proud son of heaven, naturally they have to match a woman with outstanding appearance, so even if there are girls who are willing to try to associate with him, he did not hesitate to refuse.
In this way, after nearly 59 women on blind dates, Pan Jie's marriage still has no landing. His father was anxious, and only persuaded him a few words, but it made Pan Jie impatient and scolded his father. Pan Jie is now 35 years old, and he has been wasted at home for more than a decade, and his elderly parents have long reached the retirement age, and in order to support him, the family's savings are running out. In this way, if Pan Jie does not go out to work again, what should future parents rely on to retire?
According to Article 261 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China, a person who is old, young, sick or otherwise incapable of living independently and refuses to provide for an elderly, young, sick or other person who has the obligation to provide for support and refuses to provide for support, if the circumstances are heinous, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than five years, criminal detention or public surveillance. This article is a specific provision for the crime of abandonment.
According to the law, Pan Jie has the obligation and responsibility to support his elderly parents, and if Pan Jie refuses to support his parents in the future, then his parents can also defend their basic rights and interests through legal appeal. How could a parent who had always doted on Panjie be willing to take their son to court? I'm just afraid that the hearts of the two old people will have to be broken.
It is said that chewing on the old is an act of non-appearance and scorn, but in contemporary times, there are not many young people like Pan Jie. How to refuse to nibble on the old and let young people bravely go to society has become a problem. The personal reason for nibbling on the elderly is one aspect, and the fierce pressure of competition in society is also another, after all, if the flowers in the greenhouse are suddenly exposed to the sun or rain, they will risk losing their lives.