The term giant baby is an Internet buzzword that refers to the fact that although it has reached adulthood, it is mentally like a child, extremely immature.
In real life, although many adults are more mature, there are also many people who are like this. A large part of the reason why I can grow into such a person is inseparable from the education of my parents.
The more parents dote on and indulge their children, the easier it is to develop their children's arrogant personality, and the easier it is to raise children like "giant babies", which makes people work hard. The 36-year-old "giant baby" Pan Jie was addicted to games, punched and kicked his mother, and failed 59 blind dates.
In today's society, not only will life and work be affected, but even in the blind date market, they will have no competitiveness to speak of, directly scaring everyone.
The 36-year-old "giant baby" Pan Jie was addicted to games all day, failed 59 blind dates, and punched and kicked his mother
Born in 1986 in Xiangtan City, Hunan Province, Pan Jie grew up in a very good family, although not very rich, but also a medium family.
Moreover, his parents are also people with a little education level, plus he is the only child in the family, and he has been the treasure of his parents since he was a child, and he has been pampered.
When he was a child, because his father was busy and did not have time to take care of him, he lived with his mother most of the time, and slowly he became more dependent on his mother and followed her all day.
At this time, Pan Jie was still very obedient and sensible, which also made the mother very pleased, so the love for her son was also deeper.
When he was old enough to go to school, his parents would not hesitate to give all the family's savings to provide for their son to study at the best local school. Fortunately, my son is also more sensible, and he has been in a top-notch state throughout his primary school.
With this, he was also admitted to the best local junior high school. But after reaching junior high school, Pan Jie began to break away from his mother little by little, and his studies became more and more unmotivated.
I thought that my son would get better and better, but after Pan Jie went to junior high school, his learning style was very different from that of primary school, and he also needed his own self-consciousness, and Pan Jie slowly changed at this time.
He gradually began to feel the freedom to be without his mother's company, and gradually began to be depressed. And his mother also in order to let him get rid of this discomfort as soon as possible, often secretly stuffed him with money.
In this way, in the favor of his mother, he slowly lost himself. Later, he had the opportunity to contact online games, and as soon as he first touched him, he was deeply trapped in it and could not extricate himself.
Later, his grades also plummeted, and after high school, he became worse and worse. Although At this time, Pan's mother already knew that her son was addicted to games, but she felt that high school study was stressful, and her son had nothing to relax by playing games.
It was because of this indulgence that Pan Jie further sank, until he was finally admitted to a junior college, and his mother felt regretful.
But at this time, Pan Mu found that no matter how much she wanted to communicate with her child, it was useless to talk about her heart, and her son had become less like when he was a child.
After college, Pan Jie intensified, tricking his mother into buying a computer for himself and spending 3 years in a muddy mood. After graduation, he also had no intention of finding a job, and began to become a "nibbling old man" at home.
For this reason, his mother really couldn't stand it, and he had many verbal conflicts with him, so he punched and kicked his mother, and the most serious one disabled her fingers.
Although the mother deeply regrets that her child has become like this, she is also extremely uncomfortable seeing her son who is still unemployed at home in her 30s, and hopes to find a companion for her son.
But in Panjie's state, like a giant baby, he only knows how to eat the old at home all day, and what girl is willing to marry such a person? In the end, he ended up on 59 blind dates and failed.
There were a few times when the other party was willing to try, but after contacting him and seeing his real situation, they all failed quickly, and even so, Pan Jie was still unaware of his problem, and he was dismissive of it.
The growth of children has a considerable relationship with the education of parents
Pan Jie's ability to come this far now has a lot to do with his mother's way of educating. While there is nothing wrong with parents pampering their children, it is also true that parents want to give the best to their children.
But the fault lies in the way of education, if Pan Mu is not so doting on him, does not secretly stuff money for her children when she goes to school, does not indulge in her son's behavior, and tries her best to discipline him, perhaps he will not be so.
Although indulging in games is Pan Jie's own business, if it were not for his mother's indulgence, he might not have been addicted to playing games, and it is precisely because he believes in her son too much that she will be so relieved of everything about him.
Until the end, the child can not become a good person, parents know that it is too late to regret anything. It is too late to correct the child's mistakes.
Although not everyone can become a national pillar with great wealth, as long as the parents' education methods are appropriate, at least they will not become "giant babies", and it is not bad to be an ordinary person honestly.
Education is also a technology, parents should not only respect their children at the same time, but also teach them to be self-reliant, but also let them know how to restrain themselves, children's growth failures are directly related to parents.
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