Anchor | Fang Yiwen
Source | synthesized from Teacher E's House and Poetry World
The ethos and upbringing of a family often internalize the conduct and temperament of family members, and good tutoring is crucial for a person's growth and talent. Educate children to follow certain principles and not act blindly, otherwise it may be counterproductive.
Ten years later, most of the children who have come out are from these 6 kinds of families, and parents are best to take a look.
1
Families that value education
"Orange is orange in Huainan, and orange in Huaibei is orange." It can be seen that the impact of the environment on people plays a decisive role. A family that attaches great importance to education will certainly be able to cultivate an excellent child who loves to learn.
Mr. Cai Yuanpei said: "Family is the first school of life". Parents are the first teachers of children, and it is the unshirkable responsibility of all parents to attach importance to family education. Don't let "5 + 2 = 0", don't let the child lose on home tutoring.
2
Optimistic and positive family
Some experts have found that the better the child's personality, the better than his peers in all aspects, and he will be better in the future.
The positive optimism of parents will affect the child subtly, so that the child remains optimistic, actively faces all difficulties and setbacks, learns to face life with a smile, and is full of happiness.
The more the father accompanies, the better the child's personality and stronger the logic. Every family should create a harmonious and joyful atmosphere, so that children can discover the beauty of life and learn to love life.
3
Family who like to read
The first noble person a child encounters in his life is definitely a parent who is willing to read to his child.
Parents like to read, not only nourish themselves, but also bring the atmosphere to the children, so that the children from an early age have a desire to read.
The book has its own house of gold.
In today's era of short videos, it is especially important for yourself and for children to sink your heart into reading.
Parents who like to read tend to be discerning, and they know what books their children should read at different ages. Instead of throwing a bunch of books to children, no matter what the content is, read them first.
Both are reading, but the two are very different.
In the process of children's growth, parents accompany their children to study, so that parents are not only parents, but also mentors and friends, and their best partners.
4
Emotionally stable families
In "All Is Well", the excessive doting and eccentricity of the parents make the eldest son become cowardly, make the second son become selfish, and make the daughter resent the whole family. This shows how important the good mood of parents is to their children's education.
Children who grow up in loving families are destined to be more optimistic, sunny, and motivated than children in noisy or even unsound families. The pattern of the father, the mood of the mother, determines the future of the child, and is the best feng shui of a home.
5
Respect the child's family
Every child is a gift from Heaven, and if you want to make your child excellent, you must first respect their soul. Accept the child's wholeness, trust him, and let him do what he wants to do. Everything a child does today is to become a better version of himself tomorrow.
Respect for everything a child is the foundation of all education.
Parents' understanding and support are more important than questioning and rejecting. Plant a seed in the child's heart, continue to give the child a little inspiration, a little strength, wait for the flowers to bloom, the child's tomorrow will be better.
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A family that pays attention to rules
In "Han Feizi as Evil", Han Feizi expressed his views on the word "rules":
Balance and know the peace, set rules and know the circle; everything under the heavens must be ruled.
That is, everything under the heavens needs rules.
It seems that this word is far away from us, but in fact, it exists near us and is closely related to us.
Traffic lights, queues, codes of conduct, and more.
These are all rules, and if they are not followed, the consequences are unimaginable.
Parents are reluctant to follow the rules, and the children naturally do not know how to follow the rules.
In recent years, the term "bear child" has appeared in the public eye again and again, and the fundamental reason is that children do not understand the rules, so they follow their inner thoughts and cause trouble.
Therefore, in addition to setting an example by following the rules themselves, parents should also teach their children to follow the rules so that they understand what to do and what not to do.
Loving children is not just doting, teaching them to follow the rules is the best way to love children.
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The family is the child's first classroom, but also the child's lifelong classroom, as the longest impact on the child, the most far-reaching role of parents, we must pay attention to family education, in order to prepare for the child's talent.
Education is a long practice, not only children to learn, parents in this process must also continue to learn, continue to grow, two-way efforts to educate more meaningful!
BENQIZHUBO
·Anchor of this issue·
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Fang Yiwen/
Sichuan University of Media Large Program Center 2020 students / firm ideals, has been on the way forward media students
Editor | Ah Zhi Proofreading | Mu Yao responsible editor | Ah Huang reviewed | Guanguan
Source | synthesized from Teacher E Home, Poetry World
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