It is worthy of being able to do the seventh season of the variety show, although it has changed its name and gone, but today's updated "Great Detective" is still a high-level and full-time high-energy issue! (PS: contains spoilers, first watch the positive film Oh ~ )
The rooftop apartment in this issue is a chain reaction caused by the misfortune of a typical original family.
Just as the so-called hundred causes must have effects, if it is other reasons, they may be able to find a solution, but the impact of the original family on the child requires the child to heal himself with a lifetime.
1. The murder of the "Zhen Landlord" has caused childhood
In the rooftop apartment, Zhen is a person with a serious paranoid personality disorder.
He is sensitive, suspicious, lonely, and has an almost insane desire to control his lover, because when he was a child, he experienced the marriage of his parents and lost his father for it, and his mother sent him to the orphanage.
In the orphanage, some children bullied him, some children liked him, but the final result was to leave him without exception, this childhood illusion made him extremely unconfident in himself, and made him equally distrustful of others.
Even when he grows up and has a beautiful girlfriend, Wu Bitian, he still controls her whereabouts at every turn, because in his heart, the person he loves the most will leave him.
Of course, when watching, the bullet screen was full of remarks questioning why Wu Bitian did not leave Zhen Lou, and when he learned of Wu Bitian's story, everyone understood that these two people had their own unfortunate childhoods.
2, "Wu Bitian" is bent on perfection, because of the lack of security
Because Wu Bitian's father is a "criminal".
Although it is not presented in the show, we can imagine how a father who "squatted in prison" in real life will have an impact on his child's childhood life.
Classmates are far away from or even bullied, uprooted from home, although holding the script of "big heroine", but the heartache behind it is only clear to herself.
Therefore, in the face of zhen landlord's control, lack of security, lack of love, she endured silently again and again, became a victim of marriage, and even needed courage to escape.
Zhang Ruoyun said that for the first time in so many seasons, he did not care who the murderer was, and as the father who had made a mistake, seeing his daughter get rid of the nightmare may be more important than finding out the "real culprit".
A pair of lovers, two unhappy childhoods, a marriage that torments each other, this is the shadow that the original family leaves on the future of the child.
Parents are becoming parents for the first time, children are also becoming children for the first time, and people who can become successful parents and children for the first time rely on the experience of others, but on their own heartfelt love.
The sincere love and mutual support between parents is the basic guarantee of the family atmosphere; the true feelings and care of parents for their children are an important cornerstone of their children's growth, and all of this is a happy family in the name of love.
When you grow up, you are not around your children, but you still influence your children, when they are still children.