When love first occurs, although two people will be more active than before, when they are together, they will still pay attention to the measure and let themselves try to grasp the initiative of the relationship.
When we are close to each other, sometimes we will show some initiative, and these initiatives are actually a kind of temptation to see the other party's response.
From each other's responses, we can know each other's intentions, and thus know how to get along next.
Freud said: "In addition to the positive psychological effect of love, love can also break the sense of loneliness and alienation between people because of the emotional communication and mutual care between men and women." ”
Once there is love between the opposite sex, when they get along, they will slowly lose the sense of estrangement in the past. Especially for women, when they encounter love, they are very sensitive in themselves, and they can also understand some of men's thoughts from some of men's words and deeds.
Once a woman feels the man's good feelings, she will naturally use some love ways to hint at men and make men more active.
Although women are generally more reserved and reserved in the face of love, women will also be slightly more active for love. They don't use words to express their intentions, but they reveal them to some behavior.
When the opposite sex gets along, women who often do these three actions are actually looking forward to being "picked up" by men, and more attention can be found.
01 Take the initiative to chat with you and talk about some topics that interest you.
When we encounter love, we can't ignore it, but love seems to have a magic force that makes us constantly change, so that we don't look like ourselves.
This feeling is what Shakespeare said: "Love is nothing but madness." ”
If a woman is being pursued by a man, women are generally less likely to take the initiative to contact men.
Even if they have a good feeling for men in their hearts, women will also enjoy the feeling of being cared for by men, and will also use this way to test men's sincerity. When getting along, women will also maintain their own posture and will not easily break their own reticence.
However, when a woman is in love with a man, and the other party is indifferent, women will naturally use some ways to hint at men to increase men's good feelings, so that men become more active.
Take the simplest chat, if a woman often takes the initiative to contact men, but also caters to men's preferences to chat, such behavior is enough to show that in the woman's heart, in fact, the man has been moved.
The reason why she does this is to hint at men and look forward to being "flirted" with men.
02 Show weakness in front of you, pretend to be pitiful, and want to get your attention.
When the opposite sex gets along, men generally can't refuse women's weakness. If a woman needs the help of a man and behaves very strongly, the man often does not agree to the woman's request so easily, and he is also very disgusted with such a woman.
On the contrary, if a woman changes her way, pretending to be weak in front of men and pretending to be pitiful, it is easy to stir men's hearts.
Maupassant once said, "Charm, eyes, smiles, and language are the torrents that women use to drown men and conquer men." ”
If a woman wants to conquer a man, she must first make good use of her charm, eyes, smile, and language skills. When women show weakness and pampering, they can often play these things well, so that men can easily move their hearts.
Even if you don't have a heart for a while, you can't refuse to get along with such a woman.
For these actions of women, as long as the man observes a little, he can see that she is different from you. Women often only pretend to be weak and pretend to be pitiful in front of the men they like, so as to attract men's attention.
03 Always care about you, have a close attitude towards you, and hint at you in this way.
After falling in love with someone, that person naturally occupies our hearts. Once you live in a person's heart, you will have worries, worries, and news you want to know in the days to come.
Even on the most ordinary days, we want to know what the other person is doing, what the other person is thinking.
Such missing will make us feel the meaning of "not seeing one day is like three autumns apart".
Jack London said: "There is love in the world, and then there is a language to express love, and in the adolescence when love first came into the world, it learned a set of methods, and it has never been forgotten since." ”
With love in my heart, I naturally have a lot of words that express my feelings. Although women are not so active in the face of love, they still want to care about men's lives. In the process of caring, they often show some shyness, but also have some intimate feelings.
Therefore, men should understand that women often have these actions for you, in fact, it is a hint to you, she is looking forward to your initiative, expecting you to "touch" her, don't understand the woman's mind.
Even calm and rational people, when they encounter love, they will become blind and involuntarily change themselves for love. This change is to attract each other's attention and look forward to better development of the two people.
After a woman falls in love with a man, whether it is the eyes, movements, or some inadvertent behavior, it will change. Propacos also said: "The eye is the precursor to the first announcement of a tender love story." ”
In love, some of a woman's behavior is uncontrollable, and her concern and appreciation for a man cannot be concealed. When the opposite sex gets along, men should also pay more attention, if women often have these actions, in fact, they are waiting for you to "pry".