Every parent with a boy, in the process of teaching children, if you always keep these four principles in mind, then your child will be very remarkable!
Principle one: From an early age, let the boy know that he is a great man.
When the boy is four or five years old, he already has a sense of gender, he already knows that he is a little man, at this time, the parents must consciously cultivate their manly style:
The boy fell and told him: get up on his own;
The boy was timid and told him: You can do better;
The boy made a mistake and told him: Good man does good thing;
The boy disobeyed and told him that it was an honor for manhood not to cause trouble to his parents.
It is worth noting that the role of fathers is enormous in making boys have a sense of manhood from an early age.
Countless facts have proved that too much protection and worry of mothers will cut down the boy's manhood;
The father's stricter rules and looser constraints will give the boy unparalleled strength and courage, which in turn will prompt the boy to grow into a good man faster.
Principle two: Don't be boys, be friends with boys.
What are boys most afraid of?
Obviously, they are most afraid of no one to understand, no one to support, and no freedom.
What are boys least afraid of? Parents of boys in the family know that the last thing boys are afraid of is force and coercion, and "the more they fight, the more they fight" is their strength.
Therefore, all boy parents must remember the goddaughter motto: If you don't become friends with your child now, then after puberty, he will regard you as an "enemy"!
Being friends with boys is actually quite simple:
Give boys more rights to self-choice;
Share his joys and sorrows with the boy;
Respect your boy and abandon the goddaughter concept of "no fight, no talent";
Always let the boy feel your tepid love, cleverly restrained but not strongly controlled.
Principle three: Don't make your boy too "rich."
What we call "wealth" contains two concepts, one is too much doting and arranging by parents, and the other is the abundance of money.
Some parents especially love boys, and everything depends on boys;
Some parents are very rich, they give boys a lot of pocket money;
Some parents are very capable, and they will take care of the boy's big and small things;
However, what does the parents' practice of making boys too "rich" bring to boys?
The excessive pampering of their parents makes them selfish and irresponsible;
Too much money makes them just want to consume too much testosterone in the body in the way of "luxury consumption", so that they forget that they still have to learn;
Parents' everything makes them lose the ability to work, the ability to cope with difficulties, the ability to resist setbacks...
Because of this, wise parents never let their boys be too "rich", they hide their "love" in half, they will find and create opportunities for boys to experience poverty!
Principle Four: A boy's successful personality needs to be nurtured from an early age.
In life, parents of boys often have many helplessness:
Teach him to be brave, but he always does things only promises;
Teach him to be strong, he repeatedly gives up easily;
Teach him decisively, he still procrastinates;
Whenever such a situation is encountered, the boy's parents always comfort themselves like this:
"When he grows up, he will naturally understand..."
But the truth is often diametrically opposed to parents' expectations.
If you expect a boy who has always given up lightly, after growing up to be 18 years old, suddenly becomes stronger, is this realistic?
If you want a little boy who has always cowered and cowered, after the age of 20, to suddenly go sociable like a brilliant diplomat, is this possible?
If you hope that your son, who has been spending a lot of money, will be able to manage money like a financial expert after the age of 25, this can only be a good dream for you.
No boy can live only in the dreams of his parents.
Therefore, educating a boy requires parents to guide him down-to-earth to accumulate the ability and quality of success when he is very young.
I hope that every boy's parents, in the days to come, can be proud of their sons and proud of their amazing boys!
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