Everything is predetermined, and if it is not predetermined, it is abolished.
Every year in the school season, the children's enrollment status is a common concern of teachers and parents, and at the beginning of the school year, it is best to see whether parents and children have made preparations in the week before the start of school.
At the beginning of the school year, some children entered the kindergarten in the morning and cried and did not want to go to school; some children did not sleep at noon, which seriously affected the naps of other children; some children looked very tired and had no energy; some children did not show signs of washing and drying the bedding, as if they had taken home during the winter vacation, and then they were brought back unchanged at the beginning of the school.
The preparation of the week before the start of the school will have an important impact on the child's living habits, learning habits, independent consciousness, and personality formation, and it can be said that the preparation of the week before the start of the school year largely determines the child's life and learning this semester.
Therefore, parents should seize the golden time of the week before the start of school to guide their children to make important preparations and help them adapt as soon as possible in the new semester and smoothly enter the learning state.
So, what should parents and children do well in the week before school starts?
Adjust your schedule
Regular work and rest is the basis of children's physical development and an important factor in children's brain development.
During the holidays, most of the children's time is free, there are not so many constraints, not getting up on time is a common thing, and some children will stay up late with their parents and be in the mode of excitement at night and daytime sleep.
A week before the start of school, parents must take their children to bed early and get up early, restore the previous work and rest patterns and lifestyles, such as: soaking feet in hot water before going to bed, listening to light music and children's stories before going to bed, getting up on time in the morning to do a simple stretch, and also taking the child out to run and perform aerobic exercise, so that the whole body will wake up.
After a week of persistence, the child's physical system gradually returned to the previous state of work and rest, and after the real school started, there was rarely a phenomenon of lying in bed, crying, and mental exhaustion, and it could adapt to the life of the new semester faster and thus devote itself to new learning.
Change bad habits
Any habit is not achieved overnight, but is formed in the little bits and pieces of daily life. It takes time to develop a habit, and it takes time to change a habit.
During the holidays, the child's work and rest time and living habits have changed, and even bad habits will be formed, such as snacks instead of meals, yogurt, drinks instead of boiled water, and this holiday is the Spring Festival, some children over-intake of meat and do not want to eat vegetables and fruits, some children will follow their parents to chase the drama, immersed in electronic products for a long time.
These bad habits are devouring the child's health little by little, and in the long run, it will also affect the child's intellectual development.
Therefore, parents must help their children make changes, carry out three meals a day on time every day, encourage children to drink more boiled water, and limit the number of times children drink yogurt drinks, appropriately reduce meat and increase vegetables and fruits, and limit the time to watch TV and electronic products.
In this process, parents can not only be supervisors, but to lead by example, set an example for their children, and do these things with their children, and there will be real change.
Behind every change and progress of a child, there is a pair of parents who lead by example.
Organize your required items
Mindset needs to be adjusted, life needs to be planned, and items need to be sorted out. Learning to tidy up can make people's mentality become more and more positive, and make people's lives more and more smooth.
Like primary and secondary school students, kindergarten children will also prepare some necessary items for school, such as their own bedding, water bottles, health tables, vaccination certificates, etc., and children in small classes also need to bring a pair of pants according to their own situation to prevent the teacher from helping to change after peeing pants.
Parents can make a list of items with their children, children will not write can be replaced by graphics, symbols, parents and children participate together, dismantle and wash bedding, wash water bottles, fill in the health mapping form, check vaccination certificates, check each item to check the tick, until all the ticks after telling the child, so that it is ready for the new semester.
The full sense of ceremony makes children have more fun to experience in person, and also have more confidence and happiness.
To organize things is to organize your own life.
Start a conversation
The family is the child's first school, the parents are the child's first teacher, and the quality of parent-child communication in the family will directly affect the child's life.
A few days ago, I heard a father in front of the door yelling viciously at the little boy in front of him: "I said you don't listen, you just wait for the teacher to pick you up when the school starts." ”
Such a situation has appeared in many families, some children are afraid of starting school, some children look very strange after seeing teachers and classmates at school, and some children have already developed resistance and boredom with teachers before school starts, most of these phenomena stem from the wrong way of communication between parents, or there is no communication between parents and children at all.
After a long holiday, children and teachers, peers are rarely seen, soon to start school, children's hearts should be excited, happy, but also yearn for the new semester of collective life and learning, parents can talk to their children from the following angles.
"What's the happiest thing about you during the holidays?" : Let the child talk about their happy things, the things that are most impressive, what kind of gains they have, and guide the children to sort out the life and growth during this time.
"School will start soon, how are you feeling?" Let the child talk about his attitude towards the opening of the school, hope or fear, resistance or dazedness, parents should give positive guidance to the child's real thoughts, such as "When the school starts, you will meet the teacher and your peers, and you can play together again, which is a very happy thing." "I think teachers and classmates miss you because you're their friends."
Parents must not use intimidation and threats to scare their children, causing children's psychological discomfort, and it will be difficult to quickly adapt to the life and learning of the new semester after the start of school.
"What is your New Year's wish?" : Let the child talk about what wishes are in the new year, parents also share their New Year's wishes, and help the child analyze how to divide the wishes into a small goal, when the small goal is completed, it is one step closer to the wish, so that the child understands the meaning of the effort.
The change of the child is the change of the parents.
The progress of the child is the progress of the parents.
The growth of children is the growth of parents.
The child's change, progress and growth must be the participation and persistence of parents with their children, which is a valuable asset for children's lives.
Parents are the greatest motivation and support for children on the road to growth, and there is no substitute.
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