Pay attention to the diary of the fish parenting do not get lost on the way to parenting
What kind of parents can cultivate children with a hard waist and the confidence to do things? Even if the child gets along with other older bear children, he is not worried about his loss, today I will give you a comprehensive interpretation, and the mother can understand and do it.
First, do not force children to share at any time, especially 2-3-year-old children will like to say "my" and "no", sharing is based on the child's desire to make friends to take the initiative to complete, the reason why they like to say mine, is not that he is selfish and unwilling to share, because the child is strengthening self-awareness, to respect the child's will and the ownership of goods and the right to dominate.
Second, when you chat with other parents, you must not praise other people's children by belittling your own children, and do not always praise other people's children in front of your children, each child is an independent individual, if you want your children to learn each other's advantages, you can discuss with your children how to do it?
Third, if the child is in conflict with other children outside, do not immediately blame and punish the child, force the child to apologize with the other party, first understand the origin of the matter with the child to face the problem, if it is really the child's fault, you can first take the initiative to apologize to the other party for the child, he is reflective, through the demonstration of the child to understand how to solve the mistake, do not go to the wrong for their own face to first wronged their children.
Fourth, don't force your children to be sensible, especially the habitual boss of a multi-child family must let the second eldest, and everyone is equal in front of the problem.
Fifth, if someone reprimands your child in person, you must stop immediately, regardless of whether the other party is a relative or a friend, sorry for something you first tell me, if my child has any problems, I will educate him.
Sixth, if the child is criticized by the teacher in the kindergarten, you should not easily follow the teacher to reprimand and accuse the child, on the contrary, in front of the child, you must magnify his advantages and guide him in the direction you expect, after all, the "good student" in the eyes of the teacher is honest and well-behaved and does not cause trouble.
As long as you do this, the child will definitely have enough confidence and security, he will feel that mom and dad love me unconditionally, no matter what happens to me, they are my strong backing.
Pay attention to the fish, and don't fall into the pit on the parenting road