Time flies so fast, it seems that in the blink of an eye, from the pre-holiday to the post-festival, some people even pack some luggage and get ready for work. Grabbing the tail of the holiday and taking advantage of the rare opportunity, I asked a few good friends to party together.
Mothers with children may have such feelings, after becoming a mother, the most talked about when they meet is their own children. The girlfriend said: "My daughter is in the first year of junior high school, she will not do any housework, and she is a little anxious to see it." No, lunch is made by yourself, and then rush to the party. ”
I looked at my girlfriend's expression and felt that her heart was not as she said. I couldn't help but say to my girlfriend, "How do I feel that what you said is different from what you thought?" You take good care of your daughter, and you feel a little proud and obsessed. ”
My girlfriend was hit by me, and she was embarrassed. She is indeed like this, usually she is reluctant to let her daughter do a little housework, everything in her daughter, her girlfriend will take good care of it, and she does not need her daughter to worry about it at all.
In my opinion, it is not that children do not want to do housework, it is that parents refuse to let go. I've seen too many of these parents and grandparents during this holiday season who refuse to let go.
It is very beneficial to let children do housework appropriately. Cultivating children starts from the small things around them, gradually assumes the responsibility of the family, and takes good care of the family, which I believe is what every child must experience. Well, during the holidays when there is no pressure to study, we really should let our children do more housework.
Children who do housework will be more self-reliant
I said an example around me, I believe that many parents will have an incredible feeling when they see it. A friend by my side has a son. When his son was very young, he put all his body and mind on his son and did everything to the extreme. Friends don't do housework for their sons at all, and even do what the children can do on their own.
How to say it? For example, if the child is in the third grade of primary school, the husband and wife will also bathe the child together, and each bath will not be less than half an hour. I remember the first time I saw such a situation, I was a little afraid to imagine.
I'm in the third grade of elementary school, at least 9 or 10 years old, so I don't have to do that. It is not impossible for children to try to take a bath on their own.
My daughter is also in the first grade, and after I set the water temperature, I let her wash it by herself. She told me, "Mom, I'm done with my shower. I went in again to wash her, though it was done repeatedly. However, I think this will allow my daughter to gradually complete the bathing thing.
Children who do housework know how to care for their families
There are also different examples around. A friend once told me that when she was pregnant with her second child, the eldest daughter was very concerned and considerate of her.
For example, friends are uncomfortable in the early stages of pregnancy, often have the feeling of vomiting, and can't eat. My friend's eldest daughter would wash the fruit for her to eat and would give her a bottle of milk.
In my opinion, properly allowing children to do housework can really make children become sensible. When parents encounter difficulties, they will intimately extend their small hands and do what they can, hoping to help their parents.
Children who do housework will have a better relationship with their parents
Parents and children often interact in their daily lives, which can enhance the parent-child relationship between parents and children. When the mother is cooking, the father is serving rice, and the child is serving the dish, such a cooperative division of labor makes the child feel the parents' efforts and is willing to do such housework.
For example, the mother is picking vegetables and calling the child together. In the company of the mother, the child has talked and laughed, and the two are happy and harmonious, enhancing the feelings between each other.
Even if the child helps in the early stages, we should also let the child do the housework, and it is precisely because the child does not do the housework that the child must let the child practice. Otherwise, when you grow up in the future, how can you be independent in society and have a good ability to take care of yourself.
Write at the end: This holiday is about to pass, and it may be that during this holiday, we as parents did not let our children do any housework. However, it is not too late for children to learn to do housework. Children's future life should not only learn well, but also have the ability to take care of themselves and stand on their own. (The picture is from the network, if there is infringement, it must be deleted)