Now, children addicted to mobile phones has become a lot of parents' heart disease, with the development of the times, now many people have a mobile phone, many parents in order to facilitate the contact of children, but also to the child to wear a mobile phone, children in school and between classes are very willing to look at mobile phones, play games, some because of addiction to mobile phones and wasted school, no intention to learn, and some children because of online games, personality has also become very impatient and extreme, for this reason, many parents are very distressed and anxious.
It is undeniable that mobile phones are a product of the times, and it is impossible to prevent children from looking at mobile phones now, but parents should also realize that mobile phones will not only bring convenience to children, but also bring some negative impacts, so parents must also lay a good foundation for their children and let their children use mobile phones correctly.
Case
Recently saw a news on the Internet, people feel very distressed, a 12-year-old boy because of stealing mobile phone was found by the father, the father for the child to steal the mobile phone is very angry, so in a fit of anger, in the home to punch and kick the child, and the use of power cord and jump rope and other children to carry out a variety of whipping, the whole process is also up to two hours or so, but the mother at home is also pregnant, after several interceptions of the father, did not prevent the father from beating the child, and finally the child because of the father's whipping, There was also thirst and fainting, so the parents rushed the child to the hospital, but unfortunately, after the doctor's rescue, the child still passed away.
The child leaves so that parents are very sad, the father also went to turn himself in shortly after the fact, the remaining pregnant mother, but also make people feel very sad and pitiful, for the child to play mobile phones, many parents feel very anxious, but in the discipline will often not work, some even do very extreme things, such as self-harm suicide, etc., like the little boy in the above case, because the parents do not let them look at the mobile phone, there is a phenomenon of stealing the mobile phone, the parents are also out of kindness to discipline the child, But also because of the temporary loss of control to let the child leave this world, it may be that the parents will feel very guilty and uneasy for the rest of their lives, and leaving a pregnant mother at home is also very pitiful and heartache.
analyse
Now, the problem of mobile phones has become a common disease of many children, many children because of the addiction of playing mobile phones, the loss of interest in learning, and even do not think about eating, which also makes many parents feel very anxious, deep pipe is not, no matter what is not right, so what should be done to keep children away from mobile phones?
Cultivate a parent-child relationship
Many children play mobile phones are because of the lack of parental companionship, if parents often with the child activities, children will also reduce the time to play mobile phones, now many parents are busy with work, or unwilling to be with the child, ignoring the child's growth and psychological development, the child in the mobile phone can find more comfort and common language, so the child has a great interest in the mobile phone, as a parent, but also to give the child high-quality companionship, cultivate a good parent-child relationship, let the child and themselves form an attachment relationship, so not only When educating children, children are more receptive, and they will also let children spend less time playing with mobile phones.
Lay a good foundation for your child and set good rules
Parents in the education of children, for some principled things, parents must stand their own position, do not compromise and concessions, just take the play mobile phone, parents in the beginning, must give the child a good foundation, set a good rule, it is best not to let the child contact the mobile phone, once the child is interested in the mobile phone, then the parents should also make good rules for the child, stipulate the child's time and watch the content of the mobile phone, do not compromise because of the child's begging and crying, so that the child will form, the habit of throwing and rolling.
Help your child filter the phone's content
The convenience of the mobile phone is self-evident, but there are also some inside the mobile phone, unhealthy content will affect the child's physical and mental development, as a parent should also help the child to filter the content inside the network, do not tell the child their own payment password, in many news, we often see the child because of knowing the payment password will be the parents' mobile phone shopping cart all moved back home, and even some children are deceived, the parents of the mobile phone inside the money all transferred out.
Children's mobile phone addiction is a very big problem, if parents have not yet realized the seriousness of it, may be after the child is really addicted to mobile phones, parents will be difficult to discipline even, and children become estranged and indifferent, as parents, but also pay attention to the child's physical and mental development, let the child develop good living habits, about the above content, what do you think?
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