Whether couples should sleep in the same bed or not, and what kind of marital relationship the sleep situation between husband and wife represents, is actually a topic that many people are concerned about, such as "first-class room, second-class bed, third-class bed".
A netizen surnamed Lin said that he did not agree with this sentence, because in marriage, if two people have slept separately, then it means that the feelings between the two people have come to an end, and this marriage is likely to be in jeopardy.
After all, even if the relationship between two people is good, long-term separation of rooms will gradually weaken the feelings between two people, until it becomes a dispensable state, if two people have a dispute in this state, then it is easy to produce a marriage change.
Another netizen said that he still agreed with this sentence very much. Because only the relationship between two people is good to a certain extent, then there will be a situation where sleeping in separate rooms will not affect the feelings of husband and wife, so the couple who sleep in separate rooms is a first-class couple.
And those couples who only rely on being together every day to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, their own emotional foundation is very weak, if something happens, it is likely that there will be a situation of "big trouble coming to fly separately".
In fact, as far as some parents who have married and have children seem, the right or wrong of this sentence is not important, but what is important is whether the husband and wife are suitable for sleeping in separate rooms in the family environment, whether they are suitable for sleeping in separate beds, and whether they are suitable for sleeping in the same bed.
How couples sleep will have different effects on their children, and parents should not take care of it
When the child is very young, in fact, he is not so concerned about the fact that his parents sleep separately. However, as children grow up and begin to understand some corresponding family relationships, emotional relationships and other factors, they can be judged from the situation between parents
Parental relationships.
If the impression given by parents to their children is "poor relationship", whether psychological or physical, then it will definitely affect the normal growth of children. If parents give their children the impression of "good relationship", then the child will get more security, happiness, and will definitely grow better.
●Sleep in separate rooms
When I was chatting with a friend before, I learned that this friend had slept in a separate room with his other half, and the consequences of this were not expected by both of them.
The reason for their separation is simple, because the working hours of the two people are not synchronized, the husband often needs to stay up late at night, while the wife gets up early in the morning, and for the sake of their respective sleep quality, the two people sleep separately. However, this situation means another thing in the eyes of the child.
Their children are actually in the fourth grade of elementary school and already know a lot about things. In the child's heart, his father and mother sleep in separate rooms, and it is likely that there is a rift in the relationship between the two people.
In addition, due to the interference of some TV dramas and other artistic means, even children will think that their parents have divorced, just hide themselves and do not say, etc., in short, children live in a state of negative emotions every day, and do not know how to communicate with their parents, and dare not directly say their own ideas, and worry that their imagination is true and so on.
As a result, the child not only plummeted in academic performance after that, but also often had a bad temper, and even began to disbelieve in feelings, did not trust parents, etc., and confined his thoughts to a space of his own imagination.
Therefore, the husband and wife sleep in separate rooms, the harm to the child is very large, the child is more sensitive, even if the parents explain the reason to the child, the child is still easy to think more.
●Sleep in separate beds
Couples sleep in separate beds, which is actually similar to the feeling of sleeping in separate rooms for children. Because sleeping in separate beds represents a rejection of the other party, it is easy for children to feel that there is a certain gap between parents.
And this estrangement has led to contradictions between two people, and even began to have disgusting feelings for each other, so they will sleep separately.
Of course, children will not take the initiative to understand the reasons for this, the same will fall into their own wrong thinking, and eventually this kind of thinking will interfere with the child's life and learning, causing some negative effects on the child, so it is not recommended that couples sleep in separate beds.
●Sleep in the same bed
Husbands and wives sleeping in the same bed, in fact, the impact on children is very large. Couples who can sleep in the same bed give the child the feeling of a very harmonious husband and wife relationship, and the child will think that the relationship between the parents is very good.
When a child's parents present a harmonious and harmonious relationship, the child will have stronger emotional trust, and will get more sense of security and happiness from the parents, and it is easier to receive education and guidance from the parents.
Because of the peaceful state presented between parents, let the child feel that the parents' education is correct, and if they receive the parents' education, they will become happy, so the child will be more obedient, sensible, and will actively help the parents to maintain this harmonious family relationship.
When the child is in such a state, the child's growth will naturally be more outstanding, and the child will become more excellent.
Therefore, in general, the essential meaning of this sentence is not important, because in the eyes of parents, what parents themselves do can bring positive influences to their children, and the most important thing is to let children grow and develop healthily. In other words, most parents do not agree with this sentence.
Broken thoughts
As a parent, in fact, many details of life may have a greater impact on the child, so parents must carefully consider this matter or whether this behavior will have a negative impact on the child when doing things and making decisions, after all, they are now parents, and they must assume the responsibility of correct education and raising children, and they cannot only think about themselves.
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