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Ms. Cui felt that her mother-in-law was really particularly annoying, when she and her husband got married, her mother-in-law did not give a penny of bride price, her parents gave her a house to marry, and her mother-in-law even thought about sleeping in the master bedroom.
Ms. Cui has just been married to her husband for less than a year, but there is really no way to get along with her mother-in-law, not that she is too squeamish and does not want to get along with her mother-in-law, but because her mother-in-law is really a particularly difficult person to get along with, always thinking about finding trouble for her.
Before she married her husband, she really did not know that her mother-in-law was a very difficult person to get along with, she always thought that her mother-in-law was a very good talkative woman, even after marrying her husband, she and her mother-in-law could get along, but she did not expect it, and the result made her really unexpected.
In fact, after she married her husband, she also thought about getting along with her mother-in-law, don't make any mother-in-law contradictions to let outsiders see jokes, she even tried to please her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law just did not give her a good look, and even treated her as an outsider.
Seriously, many times I see her mother-in-law's cold attitude towards her, and her heart is also particularly uncomfortable, after all, when she married her husband, she thought about saying that she wanted to get along well with her mother-in-law, but after marrying her husband, many of her mother-in-law's practices made her feel particularly disappointed.
If it is just a small matter between life, she really will not worry so much with her mother-in-law, after all, after she married her husband, and her mother-in-law is also a family, the family definitely does not want to speak two families, but it is because her mother-in-law speaks too strongly, always wants to interfere in her life, making her feel particularly dissatisfied.
She still remembers that when she married her husband, her parents offered a dowry of 30,000 yuan. For her parents to make this request, she really felt that it was too low, because in their place to call a daughter, they all had to collect more than 100,000 dowry, her parents only needed 30,000 yuan dowry, her mother-in-law did not agree.
Because of this matter, she and her husband had gone to the step of breaking up, but later because of her husband's retention, she herself was reluctant to end that relationship with her husband, so she did not care about the persuasion of her parents, and she and her husband went to the step of marriage.
Her parents watched her insist on marrying her husband at that time, and there was no way to take her, so they could only agree that she and her husband would go to the step of marriage, but they were also afraid that she would be wronged after marriage, so they bought her a dowry room, that is, they wanted her and her husband not to live with her mother-in-law after marriage, and it would not be good to make a lot of contradictions when the time came.
But did not expect that some time ago, after the house was renovated, her mother-in-law completely disregarded her feelings, she packed her bags and moved to her dowry room to live, she really felt that her mother-in-law's behavior at that time made her feel particularly uncomfortable, because she wanted to spend a period of time with her husband in the world of two, but her mother-in-law just did not consider her feelings.
Her mother-in-law wanted to move into her dowry room and live with her, she also chose to tolerate it, but did not expect that her mother-in-law was getting more and more inching, after seeing her nod her head in agreement, she directly put forward a very excessive request, her mother-in-law meant that their family rules are that the elders sleep in the master bedroom, they can only sleep in the second bedroom, this matter is not discussed.
Hearing her mother-in-law's words, her heart was really very uncomfortable, but she did not continue to let her mother-in-law at that time, and directly said to her mother-in-law: "If you want to set the family rules, go back to your house, and this is my own dowry room, my family's rule is that there is no place for the elders to sleep in the dowry room, you go back to your hometown."
She originally did not want to worry so much with her mother-in-law, but she did not expect that she would take a step back, and her mother-in-law would become more and more inch-by-inch, but instead wanted to force him out of this family, then her mother-in-law did such a thing, she certainly would not tolerate her mother-in-law.
She really thinks very clearly now, she feels that since there is no way to get along with her mother-in-law, there is no need to get along well, she has given her mother-in-law a chance, but her mother-in-law is just a hard time to embarrass her, she and her husband have been married for more than a year, but her mother-in-law's attitude towards her has never changed, then she has to continue to please her mother-in-law.
Ms. Cui feels that in this marriage between her and her husband, her husband is good enough for her, she and her mother-in-law have no way to get along, then there is no need to continue to get along, anyway, she is living with her husband for a lifetime, not with her mother-in-law for a lifetime, she does not want to take care of her mother-in-law's feelings.