In 2011, Yu Zhen followed his girlfriend Xin Yue home to see his parents. Xin Yue's mother looked at Yu Zhen, who had a big face and a large body, and quietly pulled her daughter aside, saying worriedly: "Are you crazy? Yu Zhen has been married and has also committed domestic violence! ”
Xin Yue was very firm: "He is one of the top ten filial pieties in the Chinese performing arts industry, and I don't believe that a person who is so filial to him would do such a thing!"
In 1975, Yu Zhen was born in Beijing, the family conditions were not very good, after finishing high school, in order to reduce the burden of the family to go out to work. He has done many jobs, such as: a waiter in a hotel, a liquor salesman, and a car salesman.
By chance, Yu Zhen was admitted to Lu Liping's art school and has since embarked on the road of acting. After graduation, he followed his friends to apply for the Chinese opera, and he did not expect to be admitted again.
Yu Zhen's appearance is also very characteristic, a "big long face", which looks more fierce. Although his appearance is limited, it does not delay his acting skills, and he can easily control various roles.
Because Yu Zhen's appearance is "outstanding", his face is extremely recognizable and unforgettable. He has acted in many anti-Japanese dramas, and has also been jokingly called a "professional household" of anti-Japanese dramas.
When his career was smooth, Yu Zhen also ushered in love.
In 2009, the 34-year-old Yu Zhen met Fang Baini in the "Line of Fire" crew, and after only 3 months of acquaintance, he flashed marriage.
Due to the hasty marriage, the lack of emotional foundation, coupled with the personality incompatibility, the two quarreled and did not give in to each other, and gradually hurt the feelings.
In the spring of the following year, due to a quarrel over trivial matters, Yu Zhen scolded his daughter-in-law, and in anger, he picked up the wooden stool and smashed it against the wall.
Unexpectedly, the stool bounced back, bruising Fang Baini's ankle.
At this point, the two quickly agreed to divorce and were married for only half a year.
Fang Baini felt very aggrieved, uploaded a photo of an ankle injury on social media, and for a time Yu Zhen was labeled as a "domestic violence man" and was scolded by the majority of netizens.
For the ex-wife's accusations, Yu Zhen clarified: There is no such thing at all, I have never abused her domestically, it is impossible to let her miscarry, and I also want to be a father. Everything was made up by her.
Right or wrong, only the parties concerned know, but most people will be biased towards the weak, and public opinion is very unfavorable to the earthquake.
He was thus labeled a scumbag and a domestic violence man, and for all this, Yu Zhen could not argue with it, and could only choose silence.
The marriage failed, Yu Zhen was in pain, and his impatient temper changed a lot.
When starring in the drama "Camel Xiangzi", Yu Zhen met Xin Yue in the same crew, was attracted by her gentleness and quietness, and soon launched a love offensive.
One day, Yu Zhen went to the bookstore to buy books, and on the way back, he suddenly confessed: "I like you, what do you think of me?" After several months of getting along, Xin Yue also developed a good feeling for this cold-hearted and talented man, and gladly agreed.
In 2012, Xin Yue told her mother that she wanted to marry Yu Zhen, and her mother was very opposed: Yu Zhen's first marriage was a violent wife, you are still so young, why should you marry him?
But no matter what her mother said, Xin Yue couldn't listen to it, she insisted on being with Yu Zhen, and she believed that Yu Zhen was not a domestic violence man in other people.
At this time, the circle selected the "Top Ten Filial Pieties in the Showbiz Circle", and Yu Zhen was selected.
After Xin Yue's mother saw Yu Zhen on the podium on TV, she directly called her daughter: "The filial piety of a man cannot be specified, yu Zhen will definitely be a good man who can be relied on." ”
When her mother had surgery on her leg, Yu Zhen was accompanied by a train directly from the crew overnight, and she would report to her parents that she had not been filming in a place for more than ten years.
Friend Zou Jing said: Yu Zhen, no matter how busy he is, he will find a way to go home to see his parents, no matter how tired and late, if he passes through Beijing, he will have to go home.
After knowing these things, Xin Yue's parents also relaxed their hearts, and Xin Yue's mother told Xin Yue: Filial piety men can't always be wrong, he is a person worthy of trust, you have to grasp it well.
So Xin Yue was willing to gamble like this, and it turned out that she was right.
In 2012, 37-year-old Yu Zhen and 24-year-old Xin Yue held a romantic wedding of "the moon is full of heart", and Yu Qian attended as the emcee.
After 3 years of marriage, Xin Yue gave birth to two children in a row, and the process of raising two sons was difficult and trivial, and now, Yu Zhen and Xin Yue have been married for 8 years, and they respect each other as Bin En love. Xin Yue was glad that he had won the bet; Yu Zhen sighed: "I am very relieved to have her, thank her for her company." ”
Yu Zhen also supported his wife's comeback filming, and he also cooperated with his wife in several TV series.
The popular TV series "East Fourth Arch Building East", the two also have a cooperation, Cui'er's actor is Yu Zhen's wife Xin Yue.
Yu Zhen, who realized that his wife was not easy, took over all the housework, cooking, washing dishes, changing diapers, Yu Zhen was not bad, and often took a rag and knelt in the place to wipe the floor.
In his free time, Yu Zhen lay on the ground and rode on the horses for his 2 children, making the children laugh.
Sometimes, when playing with his son, he is also like a child, crawling and rolling, laughing.
The serious hero image on the TV screen has completely appeared in the "original form" in front of the children.
@妖小夭 Entertainment
Yu Zhen divorced his ex-wife after half a year of marriage, and was also suspected of domestic violence and even miscarriage, while the current wife was spoiled by Yu Zhen and became a little princess.
And he was once crowned by his ex-wife as a "domestic violence man" label has also been successfully washed away, and now the family couple tolerates and understands each other, and the corners of the eyes and mouths can overflow with happiness.
I have to say that this is also very difficult to pretend.
Meeting the right person can make a person gentle and affectionate. The reason why marriage can be happy is probably that someone is willing to make changes and concessions, right? This is the important learning in marriage: tolerance, understanding, concession, change.
The person in the marriage who is willing to change for the other party is the real wise.
It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to stay together. A good marriage requires joint management and mutual achievement.
What do you think?
