Yun Qing: "The original self, the black angel (devil); the superego, the white angel; the ego, the judge." Measure: "I am not the devil, and the son knows that the color of the food is also." It is human nature. Think Ben

Yun Qing: "The original self, the black angel (devil); the superego, the white angel; the ego, the judge." ”

Measure: "I am not the devil, and the son knows that the color of the food is also." It is human nature. Thinking that I am the devil is going to be a problem. Again, super me is not a good thing. If the superego is too strong, it will also go wrong. ”

Yun Qing: "I understand, measure." Make vague analogies. There are reasonable desires in the ego, unbridled sex and killing in the ego is the devil; there will be excessive self-blame in the superego, and depression is caused by the superego being too strong. ”

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"Both the present and the superego have to be controlled. These two are like the two ends of the flat burden, and the flat burden on either side cannot be stable. So keep the middle way. Confucianism has a work of moderation, and Buddhism has a work of neutrality, both of which tell us to keep the middle. A mom used to ask me if I had the idea of killing my child. Am I a psychopath? From three of my perspectives. Who wants to throw a child? I wanted to wrestle the child. Because after the birth of the child, the mother-in-law, including her own biological parents, put the focus on the child, and she was left out in the cold. So the original self is the pleasure of me. He wanted to throw the child to death. Superego is moral me, he said that you as a mother of man have such a thought, it is simply inferior to a pig and a dog. Then the superego kept criticizing, making her very guilty. Both of us are biased, since we prevent the action of the child who fell to death. Think, just don't do it. Gentlemen do not care about their hearts. There is no perfect person in the world. Also acknowledge that moms want care as a normal need rather than a pervert, so there's no need for excessive self-blame. Postpartum depression is super I am not well controlled, and it is not right to constantly say to myself that it is wrong to compete with my children for favors. It is even more wrong to want to throw the child, and constantly blame yourself. So I was depressed. ”