I want to change my job to Xi'an within two years, when I came to this county town for love and for my husband, except that my husband didn't know a person, I used to think it didn't matter, and I knew it in the end

I want to change my job to Xi'an within two years, when I came to this county town for love and for my husband, I didn't know a person except my husband, I used to think it didn't matter, and in the end I knew what I had lost.

First, small counties are not conducive to development. If I don't go out, I will do the most unappreciated work in the unit all my life, and good positions will not take my turn at all. And not surprisingly, I did the same job until I was old.

Because our units are basically locals, they are all related to each other, and the residue of resources cannot be turned on by you.

Second, it is not conducive to personal learning, growth, and making money. In a small county, it only takes twenty minutes to ride from the beginning to the end. Places are small and have no conditions to support self-learning. For example, if you want to have a class on the weekend, no; if you want to read a book, the library is not as good as your book; if you want to go for a run, there is no stadium in a few miles...

Third, it is particularly lonely. Big cities, each other are from all over the world, at least there is no sense of loneliness. In this small place, you can't fit into their circle, because they used to be classmates, friends, children, relatives. And just a few of your peers, some of them are not high enough, and you don't care to associate with them.

Fourth, see through love. I used to think that wherever my husband went, I went, as long as he was good to me. Now I understand that being good to myself will change, and instead of expecting others to be good to me, it is better to try to plan your life well. Love has been obtained, now be satisfied, no more fantasies, realistic point, in addition to love, you can do a lot, harvest a lot.

If I go to Xi'an, I will:

1. Participate in more group activities, make excellent people, get together with classmates and friends when you are idle, and go back to your hometown on weekends.

2. Go to the university town to listen to more courses, and then read a doctorate or something.

3. Make good money, look for various opportunities to make money after work. Financial freedom to study abroad and so on haha.

4. In the future, buy a villa near Xi'an City, get an orchard and the like haha.

5. Old age in Xi'an pension, living in the community, there is a canteen, there is medical treatment, good conditions.

6. I went to university in Xi'an after my baby and looked for a partner. #情感励志 #