Accidentally saw a discussion of the focus of the issue, about "how long have you not sent a circle of friends" this question, I am busy picking up the phone to see, the last circle of friends is the first time this year,

Accidentally saw a focus of discussion, about the "how long have you not sent a circle of friends" this question, I was busy picking up the phone to see, the last circle of friends is the first time of the New Year this year, even if it is a New Year's prayer, it is also a sense of completion of a New Year's Ceremony. On the other hand, my friends around me, including myself, have become less and less frequent in sending circles of friends, and some people have not even sent a circle of friends for several years.

My discovery and use of the WeChat circle of friends began after graduating from college, and at that time, I still knew a little about the function of WeChat, and the function of the circle of friends was gradually explored. I just began to learn to send a circle of friends, will send one every two or three months, in fact, more with the mentality of trying out the function. Later, The use of WeChat is handy, coupled with the work that has been idle for a long time, the circle of friends in my life has become more and more important, I often spend my mind to take some photos that I think are good, with a poetic text, send a circle of friends that I think is exquisite, and always pay attention to whether there is anyone likes and no comments. At that time, the circle of friends became a very important social channel, an important carrier for me to share happiness and confide in my heart, and an indispensable and important component of life.

In the past two or three years, I have obviously felt that the frequency of my circle of friends is decreasing, the degree of attention to the circle of friends is also decreasing, and I no longer pay attention to whether there are people likes or comments all the time, and I feel that these have begun to become insignificant. Of course, the circle of friends is still a social place for many people, and when I am free, I will still pay attention to the dynamics of the circle of friends and understand the recent situation of my friends, but for myself, the circle of friends has become less important.

Why are we sending circles of friends less and less? I think this is the result of a combination of many factors, and of course, there are also differences in each person's individual situation. As far as I am concerned, first of all, because of the busy work, after the job position changes, the workload begins to increase day by day, and I feel that there is always an unfinished job on my hands, and I am unable to think of the circle of friends after being occupied by the work for most of the energy. Secondly, with the growth of age and the maturity of the mentality, I feel that as an adult, I should have a corner of inner isolation, I don't need to show anything, I have to pour out, even if I am injured, I should bandage my own wounds, rather than repeatedly tearing them open for others to see. Third, I personally think that the circle of friends is becoming more and more commoditized, or occupied by micro-businessmen, or a platform for many people to show off, and many people carefully package their circle of friends after releasing, making people feel contrived and unreal, which is no longer the place where we first express ourselves and show our lives.

The increasing distance and indifference to the circle of friends, I think I am not alone, this should be the commonality of most people. The change in the frequency and attitude of the use of the circle of friends may also be a change in the way everyone lives. False people may be more false, real people are always true, in any case, the circle of friends is just a carrier and tool, it shows everyone's life, work, mentality, experience, etc. to a certain extent, but we still need to look at it with a dialectical eye. The history of changes in attitudes towards the circle of friends is also the history of each of us growing up.