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"Hope that the child will become a dragon, and the girl will become a phoenix" is the wish of many parents!
Just like the genius girl Gu Ailing, who has frequently brushed the screen recently, it is the ideal child in the minds of many parents!
High appearance, strong strength, good learning, good personality, or a small master of making money, I believe that every parent dreams of what their children will become in the future.
Of course, Gu Ailing is extremely talented, coupled with the wholehearted cultivation of her grandmother and mother, and she herself is also very hard!
We are not a graduate of Peking University Stanford, nor are we a ski instructor, nor do we have strong financial strength like Gu Ailing's mother.
But it doesn't stop us from wanting our children to be more successful in the future!
Does the child grow up to be successful? Four questions can be tested out to see if your baby has done it
Question 1: Does the child take the initiative to do housework from an early age?
Harvard University once did a 20-year follow-up study that found that children who love to do housework from an early age have a ten-fold higher employment rate in adulthood than children who do not like housework, and the crime rate is 10 times lower than that of children who do not like housework, and children will be happier when they reach adulthood.
The Chinese Academy of Education Sciences also did a survey and found that children love to do housework from an early age, and the proportion of children who are excellent is as high as 86.92%!
Therefore, the child loves to do housework from an early age, can cultivate his independent ability, but also can exercise the child's overall ability, such as washing vegetables while cooking.
In Germany, there is even legislation requiring children to do housework, and if children do not do housework, parents can even go to court to sue their children.
Question two: Does the child have the habit of getting up early?
Foreign scholars have spent 5 years studying the daily habits of 177 self-made successful people and found that 99% of successful people have a good habit, that is, getting up early!
Most people will have higher work efficiency in the morning, getting up early can make the child's life more relaxed, the child gets up early and pushes him backwards to go to bed early, the child goes to bed early, his sleep quality is better, and his mental state is better.
Children can wake up early and eat breakfast calmly at home, and after going to school, they will not cause inattention due to low blood sugar.
Children who are accustomed to getting up early are more productive, have a better mental state, and are more likely to succeed later.
Question three: Does the child love to read?
The habit that really takes children further is the habit of reading.
In 2013, Sun Jingyan, the winner of the Beijing Language College Entrance Examination, scored 148 points in the language test, and she also mentioned that she usually likes to read, and she feels that reading should be an instinct of people.
Children can calm down in reading, improve children's concentration, children can understand deeper knowledge and a broader world through reading, so that the whole pattern of children will become larger.
Children can better compose words and sentences through reading, which is crucial to children's language performance.
If you want your child to be more successful in the future, you should cultivate your child's reading habits from an early age.
Problem four: the ability to resist setbacks
No one's life is smooth sailing, and Yang Guo once mentioned that life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten.
Therefore, when encountering setbacks, how do we face setbacks and learn lessons from setbacks in order to get us closer and closer to success.
When Edison invented the electric lamp, he experienced more than 7,000 failures to achieve final success, and when he failed, he told himself that I knew a material that was not suitable for electric lamp filament.
In the face of failure, we calmly and calmly learn lessons through failure, in order to slowly move towards success.
If the child stumbles upon setbacks, it will be difficult for the child to have a chance to make a difference in the future.
Want to make the child more prominent in the future, from a young age to let the child learn to do housework, from a young age to exercise the child's habit of going to bed early and getting up early, but also to cultivate the child's reading habits from an early age, do not protect the child in everything, let the child outside the wind and rain, endure setbacks, he can become stronger, more prominent in the future.
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