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There is such a video, the video in the sister in the back while laughing while fake crying, crying and crying, the brother in front of the mouth pouted, the expression was sad, and after a while he also followed the sister while crying and crying.
Netizens saw this scene and said: "The younger brother's emotions are too full, and the look of first grievances and then crying is too cute." "Our family is also like this, as soon as Dabao cries, erbao cries." "Children's crying will be contagious, put in the kindergarten, I am afraid that I will cry into a large piece." ”
In fact, life often encounters such things, the second child, the third child family is fine, even if they cry together, it is only two or three children crying, how much can be controlled.
The most feared thing is the place where the children get together, such as the kindergarten, a child cries, the class can not stop, everyone has to cry a throat.
Why is a child's crying contagious?
Crying is the main way for children to express emotions in the early stages, whether the child is sad, sad, or afraid, it will be expressed in this way, and therefore, as long as parents hear the baby's crying, they know that the baby may have encountered some problems and need to deal with it in time.
When children grow up, they are more sensitive to external things, including the emotional changes of others, and children can also feel them.
Super imitation ability, so that they are more likely to learn what is happening around them, and crying is just a more common behavior between children, once someone around them is crying, it is natural for children to imitate.
Is the child's imitation of crying simply imitated, or does he empathize with others?
Some studies have found that the child's ability to detect the emotional changes of others in the early stage is very strong, and at the same time can make themselves empathetic, when the child is infected by the emotions of others, he will feel the information expressed by emotions and empathy, and then cry with others, the child cries and cries a scene, so formed.
What is the point of this behavior?
The baby's early language ability is insufficient, and it is impossible to express it correctly when encountering problems, but crying can make people feel nervous in an instant, that is, this is the alarm system that the child has and is used to attract people's attention.
Another implication is that children cannot speak, they cannot communicate normally in accurate language, so they will communicate in a crying way, and when other people around them are also infected by emotions, the children will complete an interaction.
Therefore, children crying together may be a unique way of communication between children.
What should parents do if your baby loves to cry?
Step 1: Determine the cause of the child's crying
Some babies do cry because of empathy, and even feel wronged, but some babies are different, their cries are accompanied by purpose, and they will make some improper demands in the future.
It is not difficult to distinguish, some children are purely possessed by the play, there is an audience he will fake crying, without the audience he will feel bored, will stop fake crying, some children do not even have a tear.
And the real grievances of children, emotional changes can not be hidden, parents can generally perceive.
Step 2: Communicate with your child to understand the situation
If you encounter a child pretending to make trouble, it is obviously unreasonable to blindly appease, which will only make the child's emotional outburst more and more frequent. On the contrary, the cold treatment method can make the child realize that what he is doing is useless, and then he will reduce the pretend to be noisy.
For some children who really feel wronged, parents should actively ask their children the reasons, and give comfort and encouragement, and the children feel the understanding from the parents, and the emotions will be controlled.
Step 3: Guide your child to manage your emotions
There are many ways to express emotions, not necessarily by crying, parents can guide children to learn to express their feelings reasonably, such as using words to tell it, or do something to make themselves feel happy to regulate, children learn to deal with emotions, and there are certain benefits for their growth.
Therefore, it is a very normal phenomenon for children to cry and cry, which just shows that children are sensitive in their minds and have strong empathy ability, as long as parents master the methods in daily education, give reasonable guidance to their children, and believe that children will grow up gradually, they will not cry casually.
Dear parents, have you ever encountered a situation where your child cries and cries? How do you handle it?