Although the child's mind is not mature enough, and likes to imitate some things he sees, such as the small editor of the pro-shell network when he was a child, he liked to imitate the ancient puzzle boy. Although today's children will not imitate the ancient puzzle boys, they play the "letter of no friendship". When there is a conflict between children, as a parent, should you intervene?
Recently, a letter from a primary school student has attracted everyone's attention. In fact, before that, there was no shortage of letters on the Internet about elementary school students. The small editor of the pro-bei network Baidu took a look, and the number of letters that came into view was various and numerous. And the reasons for elementary school students to break off their friendship are also various, which is ridiculous.
In real life, it is very normal for children to make conflicts between them, if it is only a general small fight, as a parent, it is best not to intervene, let the child solve the difficulties encountered in life, and can better exercise the child's ability to deal with people. However, the child has a conflict, and it will be reconciled in two or three days. After the parents of both sides intervened, the contradiction escalated into a contradiction between the parents, and even had behaviors such as "covenant fight". For example, the appointment of parents of Yangpu students has attracted the attention of the vast number of melon-eating masses.
So how should parents deal with the conflict between children?
As a parent, we must be cautious and cautious, and we must calm down and ask the reason for the child's conflict, whether it is a general small fight. If it is a small fight in general, you don't have to ask. If it is a contradiction such as bullying and isolation, we must intervene in time to help the child solve it.
In fact, many times, the contradictions between children are easy to resolve on their own. As a parent, you must put yourself in the right position. In the matter of children's conflicts, communicate with children, understand children's needs, soothe children's emotions, give children the most reliable sense of security, and observe children's ways of resolving conflicts.