In the process of changing the times, people's ideological concepts have also changed, before people hope that they can start a family early, have children, and having a child at home is a happy and happy thing, but now even if the country implements the two-child or three-child policy, the family that is willing to have children lacks pity, many families have become Dink families, and now the first batch of family couples who choose not to have children have ushered in retirement, what is their current situation?
▲Husband and wife
There is stress in having children
Now there are many people even if married, but also unwilling to have children prematurely, after all, with children both sides have to do the corresponding responsibilities for the child, from the birth of the child to fulfill the parents should fulfill the obligation of raising, when the child is a little older, you have to bear the child's educational responsibility accordingly. As a parent, they all hope to send their children to good schools to study, but now the cost of education continues to increase, in order to let their children receive a good education, they must increase investment in education, in order to give their children a better growth environment, as the parents of children can only work hard, huge pressure makes people's concepts gradually change, that is, they would rather not have children, husband and wife to live their own lives, which is the so-called Dink people. In fact, this way of not having children came from abroad at the beginning, mainly because both sides were worried that having one more child would cause a burden on their lives. Now more and more families in China have chosen this dink way, in the past people gave birth to children mainly to raise children and prevent aging, but now if there is no child, can you still prevent aging?
▲Children's education
The first Dink couples have retired
Now that the first parents who don't want children are already facing retirement, what is their current state of life? Now this batch of Dink couples are divided into two categories, one is a relatively free life of couples, they do not have to quarrel over the problem of children, no month to get the pension as long as they can meet their own expenses, unlike families with children sometimes have to subsidize money to their children, do not have to worry about the marriage of their children, two families with monthly wages can go out to travel, in general, it is still relatively happy.
The other type is that parents who feel a little lonely, look at other people's homes every New Year's Festival are lively, and there are two people in their own home, which is relatively deserted, and there are also regrets about their choice to be a Dink.
▲ Dink people
Are they happy?
To say that when the Dink people are unhappy or unhappy, it is judged according to everyone's psychological state, and some people feel that it is a very happy thing not to worry too much about their children, and there will be no contradictions between husband and wife because of children. Such people have a certain economic foundation, and it depends on whether they are happy or not, naturally depending on whether they do not have enough money in their hands. If the rich Dink people in their hands are naturally very happy, they can spend money to do what they want to do, and there is a certain guarantee for their age to continue to increase, and some Dink people with poor economic conditions are naturally not so happy, and they must always worry about their future pension problems, and some Dink people will regret why they did not have a child at that time after they are old, after all, when people are old, they are easy to feel lonely, which is the company of no children, which will increase the loneliness of the elderly.
▲ Old Man Dink
summary
Whether to choose Dink depends on your own inner thoughts, if you choose to be a Dink, then you can enjoy the happy time of the couple, do not have to worry about your children, you can save a lot of money, the only bad thing is that you will feel lonely when you are old, and no one can take care of yourself.