Today, on the way to work, I met a very strange child: many children were playing in the mall, and he was lying on his chair in the mall quietly reading a book, as if everything around him had nothing to do with him.
Friends say that this child will not be too lonely and unsociable? Because it feels out of place with the surroundings. Another friend has a different view, he believes that in this noisy environment, children can read so intently, and they must have made great achievements in learning or in their own areas of interest in the future.
Indeed, the future development of children, in fact, from the daily behavior and behavior habits of children, you can see the child's IQ level. If the child has these kinds of quirks, parents do not have to worry, but this is the performance of high intelligence!
First, when doing things, the concentration is particularly concentrated, and it feels particularly immersed in your own world
In our learning process, it is not difficult to find that most of the students with better grades are particularly focused when they study, play when they should play, and do when they should do; in contrast, those who are half-hearted when they study, their grades are difficult to be ideal.
This is the difference between people with high IQs and other people: those who can achieve great things generally devote themselves to doing things. If you find that your child has this particularly persistent performance, it proves that he has a good quality, can not be disturbed by the external environment, presumably your child will be able to persevere in the field he likes in the future.
Therefore, parents must not forcibly interrupt their children because they do not integrate into the collective environment and force their children to participate in areas that they are not interested in. Instead, give him encouragement and support so that he can focus on doing what he loves.
Second, do not care about the external conditions, for the material conditions are easy to meet
If children are particularly easy to meet for material conditions, some parents are happy and have parents worried. The comfort of parents is that the child basically does not compare with others, nor does it make excessive demands on parents like other children; the point of concern is that if the child is too indifferent to fame and fortune, there may be no enterprising spirit in the future.
In fact, parents do not have to dwell on this point at all, because indifferent to fame and fortune does not mean that they have not gone in and not pursued progress. Just like Wei Dongyi, a mathematical genius who was more famous some time ago, he broke into everyone's field of vision with a bottle of mineral water and a bag of steamed buns, his life is very simple and simple, but in the field he is good at, he has made great contributions to society and the country.
If your child does not have high requirements for the quality of life, but is more self-disciplined and pursues the things he likes, it proves that he is strict with himself and truly pursues spiritual heights.
Third, always maintain the spirit of exploration, full of curiosity
Some children are particularly naughty from an early age, and in their world, they seem to be full of unlimited energy to explore the world, no matter what they want to find ways to understand.
Even when they were young, parents complained that such children were too naughty, always loved to tear them apart at home, and worried that they would lose their minds when they grew up. But this just proves that children have a positive exploration of the problem.
When faced with this pair of children, perhaps they will ask a lot of strange questions in their lives. When it is difficult for parents to answer questions for a while and a half, they must not scold or perfunctory, but actively explore the answer with the child, and guide the child to improve the enthusiasm for learning in the process of pursuing the answer.
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