If you want to do a good job of parent-child reading, you must make these 3 preparations, and one less is not enough
The most suitable time for the leisurely and boring winter vacation is to hide at home and read
On the warm sofa, on the quiet study floor
Open a book with your child and put on a favorite piece of music
It's really cozy, very relaxed
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With the advent of the winter vacation, children have a lot of time to "waste"
However, the weather is not suitable for outing, especially in the north
Coupled with the recent epidemic, many old mothers also feel that it is safer to stay at home
At this time, accompanying children to do parent-child reading has undoubtedly become the first choice to pass the time
But there are also many parents who react that reading in person is simply a big "pit"!
Indeed, reading is a time-consuming, labor-intensive, and slow-moving thing
If parents want to do a good job of parent-child reading, they must first make these 3 preparations
01
Be prepared with enough patience
Reading first is a time-consuming thing
This requires parents to be patient enough once we are on this path
Many times, time will slip away unconsciously
And during this time, you might have been able to do more "practical" things
Second, for small children, many times, they can't be too focused
Especially the younger the child, the greater the difficulty of this reading
For example, if a baby is only a few months old, you should accompany him to do parent-child reading
You will find that in a large part of the time
Reading this was very much resisted by them
Maybe you watched him for an hour, three-quarters of the time
Your baby is either "eating" the book or "tearing" the book
At this time, you not only have to accompany him to read, but also carry out book cultivation activities from time to time
It can be said that it is a very test of people's patience
Some parents may think that it would be nice to have a child a little older
In fact, once the child develops the habit of parent-child reading
It may call you anytime, anywhere
For example, you may be going to the toilet
Or wear a beautiful mask
At this time, the child wants you to tell him a story
So what do you do?
It can only be sacrificing one's own time
Of course, once you get through this period
The child himself falls in love with reading, at this time, you can be very relaxed
When my son was young, I spent a lot of time with him almost every day doing parent-child reading
Many times, I also want to be lazy
Thinking about simply giving up, or occasionally deliberately delaying time for him to read for a while
But no matter how difficult it was, in the end I patiently persevered
Now, my son, who is four and a half years old, not only reads books by himself every day
In addition, his vocabulary and literacy are also very impressive
And a lot of times, they tell me stories in turn
Once, in a kindergarten performance, this little guy also took the initiative to sign up for a storytelling program
That day, I watched my son gushing on the stage, talking about "I Know Who I Am" with emotion.
Sitting among hundreds of students and parents, the pride in my heart can be said to be spontaneous
As parents, we must be prepared with enough patience before parent-child reading
Understand how time-consuming reading is
At the same time, you must also have a yearning, remembering, as long as you insist on companionship
One day, the child will bring full harvest to you to bloom the light of success
02
Get enough money ready
Yes, parent-child reading is a very expensive action
It costs a lot of money
Judging from my experience of buying books for so many years, this is absolutely indisputable
I remember when I was in high school, I used to go to a bookstore across the street from the school to read books
Once I came across a book that I liked very much
However, at the end of the month, I was already stretched out in terms of living expenses, and I was really a little shy
But I like it so much! So I bought her for money anyway
As a result, I spent the next few days eating instant noodles
For so many years, I have maintained the habit of buying books, and the money to buy books, if added up
It's also a lot of money
Some time ago a friend told me
"I have always felt that it does not cost much to buy books, and I do not like to read, but since I began to read with my children."
The money to buy a book is a rush, because you will definitely want to read the next one after reading it
And once you get used to paper books, looking at the electronic version is not that taste."
Indeed, at my other friend's house, there are two bookshelves alone
There are thousands of books on the above, and the father of the child often says that "xx family is really rich"
In fact, buying books is not necessarily money
But once you have that love, you can't stop buying
This is like some people, obviously know that the game recharge is wasteful, but they like to play games
Anything, once it becomes a love, must be very expensive
But I bet that buying a book is definitely an investment that won't lose money
Compared with other hobbies, buying books is not only cost-effective, but also has a stable rate of return
A person who likes to fish and buys a lot of fishing equipment, then he can't go out fishing every day
Similarly, not every fishing will be rewarded
But you buy a book, and you can pick it up and read it whenever you want
And every time you read it, you will have a different harvest
Not to mention the bad hobby of playing games and mahjong
03
Get ready for enough energy
As we all know, parent-child reading is not only expensive and time-consuming, it is also very wasteful
Not only does it consume your substance, but it also consumes your mental and physical strength
People who don't have enough energy can easily lose
If nothing else, tell your child a story and read it
Parents need to have a good voice
In life, I often see some parents who spend a lot of money to buy a variety of books
The result is just a casual throw away, let the child see for themselves
Parents choose to watch videos and visit Taobao on the side
In the end time is gone, the money is gone, and the child is not reading anything
In fact, the most important thing about parent-child reading is that you have to accompany your child to read
Put all your energy into it
In this way, the child will be driven up and can slowly develop good reading habits
There is no doubt that if you want to do a good job of parent-child reading
From book selection to reading, every process is indispensable to the hands-on efforts of mothers
Take book selection, for example, if you don't put in the effort to pick them carefully
It's a brain of what classics to buy, what to buy and what to buy
At this time, the child will not be able to read it
You may even get bored with reading because the content of the book is inappropriate
Therefore, when mothers choose books, they must choose carefully, depending on whether the publishing house is good or not, and whether the content of the books is suitable for their children
Try to find high-quality books that suit your child's interests
Like my children, I have liked robots since I was a child, as well as various popular science content
So when I pick books, I try to choose these kinds of books
Of course, he will also consciously expand his interest, otherwise, the reading area will be too narrow
And once the child develops an interest and habit of reading in their favorite field
Then as children grow older, they will naturally choose to choose books and read books
In addition, many parents reported that their children also like to read
But as soon as I enter puberty, I can't help but worry
Fear that children will be abused by bad books, such as some fantasies, love, violent comics, and so on
In fact, parents don't have to worry too much
Because curiosity does not equal interest
When I was in high school, I had read fantasy novels, but this did not affect my subsequent reading to become formal
You should know that the child's thinking will continue to mature, and in the process of growing up, the child's reading taste is gradually improved
So parents should not be overly anxious, let alone suppressed
Because sometimes the more you suppress, the more curious the child is
In the end, it may well backfire
04
The most important thing about reading is perseverance
I have to say that the formation of a person's reading habit needs to go through a very long process
In this process, the most important thing we need to do is to persevere
The so-called "keep the clouds open to see the moon"
Although reading is undoubtedly a big pit, but believe
As long as we are prepared with enough patience, energy, money, and perseverance day by day
Be a good guide for children and continue to accompany them
Then one day your child will use richer knowledge, a broader mind, a more far-sighted pattern and insight
Towards a better tomorrow
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